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Topic: 20/20 tonight Posted: 20 May 2010 at 9:46am |
....is on extended breastfeeding (or whatever the politically correct term is!) Thought some of you may be interested
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 9:49am |
Yay might have to watch that. EBF fascinates me.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 9:57am |
I have the recorder all set. Should be interesting
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 9:58am |
It has been on before and some of the kids were school age and still b/fing.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 9:59am |
The ad for this sparked an interesting conversation with DP regarding how long we will BF for, so will be watching with intrest!
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 10:32am |
IMO I think its weird and b/f after 2 years is strange - breast milk is baby food after all - b/f at school age grosses me out.
Up until the invention of the pill allowing for family planning, b/f would have automatically stopped at 18 months to 2 years as then next baby would have been there by then.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 10:39am |
DP and I talked about this, I am going to watch it, he isn't. I plan to breast feed until 1-2 years but dp thinks going to 2 years is gross!!
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 10:42am |
I have a friend who still breastfeeds her 2 and a half year old which I think is quite cool but I'm not sure if I would be that keen to do it myself.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 10:53am |
thanks LR I am going to watch it. I could not imaging BF a school kid...or want to.
I had always planned to BF till at least 1yr but it never worked out that well for me.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 11:45am |
If you are listening to Michael Laws they are having an interesting discussion on it.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 11:46am |
I've watched it before, it will be interesting watching it again as they've gone back & interviewed some of the kids now that they are older.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 11:51am |
What is Michael Law's take on it? I'm sure I can guess!
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 11:57am |
Thanks LR. Im wondering if I can stream it here. Will get DH to lookie for me. What time is it on in NZ?
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 12:00pm |
He is supportive but he's trying to find out why feeding a 5 year old or older is necessary. ie On what medical grounds.
My hubby just text " Ru listening 2 the radio? U have 2 breast feed Cooper until he is 5" what a
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 12:02pm |
Might have to give it a watch. I'm still bfing Lauren, and will do until she's ready to give it up - though I don't think it will last much past 2. Just because a new baby arrives, doesn't mean you have to stop feeding the older one though! lol I'll be tandem feeding, and have heard lots of positive stuff about it. I'd hate for Lauren to feel like she was being cut off just because a new baby has arrived.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 12:02pm |
Hehe, tell him you were thinking more like 10
Rianna, it's on TV2 at 9.30pm. You should be able to watch it on TVNZ on Demand?
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 12:09pm |
Kali1 wrote:
Might have to give it a watch. I'm still bfing Lauren, and will do until she's ready to give it up - though I don't think it will last much past 2. Just because a new baby arrives, doesn't mean you have to stop feeding the older one though! lol I'll be tandem feeding, and have heard lots of positive stuff about it. I'd hate for Lauren to feel like she was being cut off just because a new baby has arrived. |
I was still breastfeeding my daughter when I was pregnant with my son..my mil said I should wean her as she may get jealous when I am feeding the baby..I had no intention of weaning her and was leaving it up to her...as it happneed she self weaned a couple of months later but would have been happy to tandem feed.
my personal limit is 3 years but after 18 months would mostly be at home
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 12:18pm |
You know what. I have a very interesting question to ask.
Do anyone here give milk to their toddler over the age of 2? Do anyone on here get a bit worried when their kiddy doesnt drink the follow up milk or cows milk when they are a toddler? It is all about the calcium at young age right?
Now I just want to honestly know (because to me this is to do with society thinking it is all abnormal now, but wasnt in the past) why is it wrong giving milk to a toddler made from a human to a human. And why is it right giving milk from a cow made for a calf to a toddler?
Would it be acceptable to express the milk and give it in a mug? So the problem then is the "containers" the milk comes in?
As everyone see I do do extended breastfeeding. I cant really say what is suppose to be a cut of date. But loads of moms that do extend breastfeeding have said that the suck that the child needs to get milk changes round and about between 3 and 5 and they are not able to really get much milk in. (which to me indicate that is natures way and was perhaps meant to be). I did breastfeed my girl to 2 years 8 months and she gave it up. Will do the same for my boy.
And no I am not trying to be too argumentative (okay perhaps a teeny weeny bit as to me it seems absurb that you get labeled an extremist for it.)
And the examples they have out there is not of the best it was almost as they went out getting the most extreme they could.
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 12:30pm |
I always thought BFing a 2 year old is a bit weird. But the longer you BF your child the less weird it seems. IYKWIM?
I stopped BFing Taylah when she was 8 1/2 months, i wish i had of kept going until 1sh. I think personally One is a good age.
I dont think children who are 3 and over should be breastfeed. I find it gross too
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Posted: 20 May 2010 at 12:35pm |
I will be watching this. I think I've seen it before though.
Before I had DS I was originally in the 'if they're old enough to ask, they're too old' camp, but that has now changed. I'm pretty sure I won't be feeding him when he's at school lol, but I am interested to see and hear what the kids and parents say tonight.
WHO recommends 2 years and if I remember rightly the world average is 4 years, so its just westernised society who sees extended breastfeeding as 'weird' or 'wrong' because breasts have become sexualised, rather than what they are intended for.
Also, I don't remember who said breastmilk is baby food, but I read an article a while ago about a guy with cancer who was drinking his daughter's expressed breastmilk and apparently it seemed to be having a positive effect.
The benefits obviously extend beyond infancy. Wonder if its actually been researched...
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