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    Posted: 24 January 2007 at 3:08pm
...won't sleep on her back?

Krystiana is in a pretty good routine of waking for a feed, dozing off at the breast, having about 1/2 hour lie down during which she wakes properly for a "play" and then wants to feed once more before dozing back off to sleep for 3 hours or so.

But she has a thing about sleeping against my front - either upright or in feeding position. It doesn't matter if I hold her like that for 10 seconds for 10 minutes, when I lay her on her back for a sleep she wakes up within a few minutes and then we get stuck on the part of the cycle which feeds and dozes every 10-30 minutes And they aren't proper feeds either: suckle suckle sleep is all there is to it.

So in desperation the other night I lay her on her tummy in the bassinette - in the same position she had been lying against my chest. And she slept beautifully - for five hours in fact It's just happened again today. She's not cluster feeding because she's too dozey. She just doesn't want to sleep on her back, wrapped or unwrapped.

She's only 10 days old, what should I do?
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Personally - I'd roll with it

Orrr... alternatively... I found that Hannah was settled with the safety sleep because of the pressure on her tummy. Maybe put a soft toy or something on her belly when she is on her back?
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My inclination would be to go with it if she was a bit older... but when is the tummy & SIDS thing until? 4 months or rolling?

Not sure if I want to introduce a SS cause then I'll have to wean her off it one day (gee I sound lazy lol)
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Okay another question

For those of you with tummy-sleeping babies, how old were they when you let them choose?
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charli did the same thing when she was about the same age...maybe a little older. my mw suggested sleeping her on her tummy on a cushion/couch/someone's lap til she was in a deep sleep and then transfer her into her bed. we tried it and the first night we did she slept 7hrs! i think we did it for a week or just over until she didn't need us to anymore....might be worth a try?

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My niece was a tummy sleeper from day dot and they did what Vanessa suggested. She was a great little sleeper too. Unfortunately not so good now, but that's another story!
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She maybe ok on her side with one if those wedge things to stop her from rolling on her tummy. Personally I wouldn't sleep on tummy at her age. My son was about 6 months when he would roll himself onto his tummy so I just left him to do what he wanted but he was older and could roll back over if wanted to.
Rhyley use to wake after falling asleep on us so now I put him to bed almost asleep and stay with him in his room - but not picked up - till he goes back to sleep if he wakes. he still does it some times as he likes to snuggle into my arm to get settled - and once again half asleep I will put him in his bed.
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Alize too enjoys to sleep on his tummy. His favorite position to sleep is upright on my chest or with his head on my shoulder. I think he finds it more comfy becos of his reflux. I have since got him sleeping on his side and he also has a flat pillow. He rolls to his back while in a deep sleep. I hope you find something that works for you and Krystiana

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Vanessa - when you transfer to bed it is on the back?
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I'm probably just about ready to get rid of the SS, although a 'test drive' without it ended with Erin at the top of the cot (when she'd been at the bottom!)... so we'll see. She's not quite six a and a half months yet.
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Kels, Briona had silent reflux so I feel for ya - and must admit that had crossed my mind. But Krysti is far, far too settled. Makes me curious why she prefers the tummy though.
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Yes thats a point. Fingers and toes crossed that she doesnt have it too.

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teresa, we'd put her back to bed on her side, i should've said that in my other post. i'd roll up 2 towelling bath mats and put one in front of her and another behind her so she stayed put all night.
jack is a tummy sleeper and has been since i got rid of his SS at 14mths.

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I can't remember when we weaned Maya off the SS, she still had itw hen she was in hospital at 9 mths so sometime after that, but we didn't have any issues with it.

I would be encouraging her to sleep on her back, or her side at a compromise. Not to make you worry but Mercedes reflux wasn't apparent till around 3 weeks, so maybe Krystiana has a touch of it?

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Both my girls slept better on their sides and also with a wedge under the matterss so head was slightly higher. Tummy sleeping only happened when they could do it them selves. Good luck!!
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Addison went through a stage about that age where she wanted to sleep on her tummy. I would let her during the day cos her basinet was out in the lounge and i had a breathing monitor on her and would still check her every 5 minutes. I would still put her down on her back but if she grizzled then i changed her, this only lasted a couple of weeks. She is now a tummy sleeper most of the time but is almost 7 months and can hold her head up. Was thinking of doing the safety sleep thing cos she moves around so much in bed, monday she turned right around and got her head under the blankets, no idea how but i also dont want to have to wean her off the SS.
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I took Krysti to bed with me today, had my eyes shut for only 5 minutes and when I opened them she was facing the opposite way (She was lying on her tummy, drowzy but awake)... are kids this young supposed to be able to do that?!
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she sounds a determined wee thing....!!!

what about having her in a front back during the day? some babies love that and sleep for hours that way? I worked with a cambodian lady once whose bub slept like that (in a body sling way before they were trendy!!!)all day long - between feeds - and it was amazing...he was sooo content but put him down and he lost it...yet he slept in a cot at night...
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Front pack sleeping is rather impractical when you have a 3yo and 1 1/2 yo at home I tried that with Briona and every time she got into a light sleep she'd get a whiff of what was on offer and wake herself up!

Have just seen mw and will be trying to side-sleep her with rolled blankets front and back today.
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Yay! It works!!
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