GGGGRRRR!!! DH!!!!

Ok so im absolutely fuming right now!!! DH and i just popped to the supermarket and just as we pulled up home he said that he was working way out of town tommorrow so i said "what about my scan!!!???" (we have another scan tommorow to try and find out sex again) and he said "well i cant do much about it!" man this P***** me off!!! because he bailed out of the last scan with a weak excuse of work and this afternoon he came home and said that theyr low on work because the next job doesnt start till monday. This was the same excuse last time and then he turns up out of nowhere at the scan but wouldnt come in!!!!???? now im a very suspicious person and while this sounds suspicious - i do actually know where he is at these times and it just seems as if hes avoiding the scans!!! He was the one who hounded me for this baby and is extremely overportective and has come to all the other scans no matter what he had on that day but these ones where we are wanting to find out gender - he just wont come!!! maybe im reading to much into it but it still makes me so mad and upset!!!!
Also why the hell did he wait till now to tell me if it really is work!! (by the way - it just came up in conversation and i worked it out! he didnt actually outwardly tell me!) i said to him "were you just ganna not turn up or tell me in the morning when im half asleep!!
GGGGRRRRRRR sorry im just angry and confussed and upset!!...

ah a typical man....mine still asks if i want him to come...OF COURSE i do....!!!! I even dragged him along to appt today when he was "dying" of a mancold!

DO u think maybe that your DH is trying to tell you he doesnt want to know the bubs sex??? Maybe it is a sign that you didnt find out last time?? Ask him if that is it!

As for turning up late I would call him if you are abot to go in and hes not there = and if not far away tell him you will wait til he is there....if he turns up then he does want to be involved doesnt he? maybe he is scared of something he doesnt know how to tell you...talk to him about what is going on in his head....

I can see why you would get upset Amber...men are from MARS and whos knows what going on in their head!!??!!

I was a "high risk patient" so went to Check ups every 4 weeks and then a scar every 4 weeks.....for a while DH came to most and then we were having some problems and he came to none and the tried to come to most but since there was sooo many that he got tired of it!!

But tho it was not necessary I wanted him there and was angry that he wasnt! But what can you do??

Big Hugs

Dont forget to tell us what you are having!

Well we half found out!!??? Iv posted it in a post so have a nosey
And anyway when i said to hubby (i had to tell him because he came looking for me but was already gone! so he missed it!) "Are you excited about having a ********* (hehe) cos i am!!" and he said "well i dont know what it is yet so no!" and i said "i just told you!" and he said "well thats only 50% correct! so who knows!" gosh i just cant win!!

Yap sure is a typical male...
I told my hubby oh the scan guy is 95% sure that its a girl...are you dissapointed/excited?? He told me that he does not wanna think about it since there is still a 5% chance that it could be a boy!! Wha??