So long...

Well, since I’m not one for beating about the bush I’ll get right to it. I really regret that things have come to this, and perhaps it is a bit premature, but on principle I cannot bear to stay any longer.

I won’t name names, but there is a certain presence and attitude that I believe is capable of doing great harm here – but efforts to change things by myself and others seem to have gone completely astray.

I have made some truly wonderful friendships through this forum, and I will continue to keep in touch with those I value most (a fair few at that). Motherhood is a unique, incredible, and amazing journey – unfortunately I have reached a point where I need to start walking in a different direction.

My blessings and love to you all,

Jax


“We do not see things as they are; we see things as we are.” - The Talmud

I wonder if I'm the only one who has absolutely no idea about this presense and attitude, therefore me confused!

You're not the only one Stacey

but sorry so see you go Jax

jax wrote: there is a certain presence and attitude that I believe is capable of doing great harm here – but efforts to change things by myself and others seem to have gone completely astray.

no way you could just ignore them and "talk" to those you do have things in common with.?

you shouldnt let a person stop you doing things you enjoy.

all you are doing is giving them power.

Aw Jax, that is really sad. You have so much helpful advice to share with us newbies

I hope I remain oblivious to it all too though!

Jax, dont go...... just ignore said persons posts. Your views on topics will be missed.

Stink one Jax. You have been a great help to lots of people here including myself, so it won't be the same without your wise words. I can understand where you're coming from though... I guess it's like going to a party you expect to have fun at, but then you see someone there you dislike and it ends up being a real downer..

Now just remember, if you say you're going to leave and make us all say nice things to you, you're not allowed to come back cause that's the rules

See you next playdate

I'm not sure whats going on either but its sad to see you go Jax I agree with what everyone has said your presence and advice will be mist. We wish you and your beautiful family all the best for the future.

huh wah Im lost to. dont leave Jax we guna miss you

Don't let a small minority spoil things here for you Jax.

I hope others have the same opportunity as we had, to meet each other in early pregnancy sharing our dreams, joys and fears and now share our experiences with our amazing little girls. That's what Oh Baby is about, not whatever/whoever is making you feel you need to leave.

That's just my 2 cents worth on the matter.

See you soon
Toni & Caitlin