Sad

Ok at the risk of starting something (Emma or Kathrine feel free to delete this if you need too).

What is going on we have lost both Jax and Jess 2 people I have valued most on this site.  I don't want to know detail's.  I just want to say how sad it is that thing's are beginning to get like this one of thing's I value the most about oh baby is it is in no way been bitchy or catty how ever if it starting to head that way then I think there will be alot more leaving.   Anyway Jax and Jess if you happen to read this  Please know you will both be missed greatly.

Edited by Deborah

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Edited by mum2emj

It is sad but also silly. I think things have got out of hand when they could have been handled differently and people not taking things so personally.

Edited by my2angels

i was as shocked as everyone to see jax go but i guess she had her reasons.
im pretty sure ive never seen any scattyness over ehre, which is why i like posting over here.

was going to say that sometimes a persons need change - the reasons they sign up for a board in the first place may have changed or their needs have been met. also when you get a lot of different people you are bound to find some personalities that just dont get on, and unlike IRL it is much easier to avoid those personalities. i am sure that there have been lots of people who previously posted on here who have gone and been missed but because they didnt say goodbye before going we prob didnt even notice it
Jess is still on the board, i think at most she was gone for a day and she did change her name once or twice before the one she has now. which goes to show deborah that things arent really as bad as you first thought and also that we have so many people on here that its hard to know who is here and who isnt anymore. but that growth is also a good thing too.

also i felt that in saying that "emma and katherine can delete your post if they need to" that you are really just trying to stir something up or make something out of nothing.

people come and go, there are others to meet yet who may be just as valued or appreciated as those that are gone.

Edited by gandt

gandt wrote: also i felt that in saying that "emma and katherine can delete your post if they need to" that you are really just trying to stir something up or make something out of nothing. people come and go, there are others to meet yet who may be just as valued or appreciated as those that are gone.

Ok I am really sorry you feel that way, but that was not my intention  I wanted to post about this, but was concerned it would cause trouble "WHICH I DID NOT WANT TO DO"  Hence why I wnated to make it clear that if it did casue trouble i would prefere it was deleted then cause trouble.

 

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Edited by mum2emj

I agree with my2angels...people come and go, kids grow up and you find yourself in a different space.   It makes me feel like I'm on a teen site or something....I don't know, it just seems silly!