Rude people day???

sounds like it was on here anyways...carparks, trolleys etc....

I had office junior - lets call her K - take Ella today while i had a meeting. Anyways the others were about to go for a coffee at cafe and asked K if she wanted to come. I said for K to take Ella if she wanted as she had been fed etc...so she did.

K the Office junior is a kid of about 18 - 20, lovely girl, adores Ella and dotes on her! Not her job but she does.

Anyway apparently at cafe with ella in stroller two women at table near them kept staring and whispering (not so quietly)about K and bubs!!! OMG obvioulsy disapproving of young girl with baby!!! SO older secretary with them apparently got sick of it and yelled at them to Stop staring etc...

HOW RUDE!!!!! I told K etc that they should have replied that she was the nanny and bubs was a celebrities child and left them guessing or something similar....God some people are sooo rude!!!

Some random woman walked up to my sister in the mall once when she was babysitting Maya and said "I hope she's not yours!" Claire was mortified! She wasn't sure if it was her age (she was about 19) or the fact that Maya is fairly dark skinned...

I would have thought in this day and age (God that makes me sound old!) people would be used to seeing young mums!

I would've thought (like Emma said) people would be used to seeing young mums these days. I know of someone who had a baby at 13, so 18 - 20 doesn't seem all that young.

I remember when my wee sis was a bubba (I am 13.5 years older than her) we (my big sis and I) would take her places, and we used to get the worst looks from people! I wish people would mind their own!!!!!

LOL about what you said to her bombshell - bet she wished she had've thought of that at the time

"and we used to get the worst looks from people! I wish people would mind their own!!!!! "


Exactly !!! no one is perfect so who are they to sit in judgement of others, like Haleighsmum says , some people have no lives

My hubby and I still get the shocked looks and "You're too young" comments from strangers when we're out with our kids. We are both 27 this year but people think we look young.
It is so annoying, and I never have the balls to tell them to bugger off with themselves either!

I get people cooing over Xavier and Josiah all the time. They usually make some comment about me having my hands full (especially as Josiah looks younger than he is, and Xavier looks older than he is) and are surprised when I say "no, my 6yo is a big help"

Most people seeing Nat or me with the boys assume that we have no other, older, children.

When I had my 1st baby people were shocking!!!!! (and not shy to comment either, except if my mum was around, she would have clocked them one) I was still at school and even the teachers were rude. I stop going many places as I hated the glares. WHen I was working last year and preg with Alize one of the ladies said to me "oh your starting your family early" I said "Oh no I have an 11yr old and 6yr old" She nearly fell of the chair lol I also get people asking me if my little sister is staying with me to help with my son, Im like NO she's mine too. Although Lesieli did once tell her friends mum and dad that I was her big sister lol.

That is rude - but some people are just so opinionated and rude. I get it all the time with a 10 year old and the "oh dear - you aren't old enough to have a 10 year old". Some people...

Danni-chick wrote: That happened to me when I was 16 Bombshell me and mum were looking after her friends baby. Mum and me pushing the pram were walking through farmers in Shore City this old man , walked passed and said "bloody teenage kids with babies".

I wonder how these people would cope in countries were you're married at 12 and off starting your family.
Why is 20 young to have a baby? You can get married at 18 (16 with permission)?