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caitlynsmygirl 
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:05pm |
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i had a pretty sad week last week, on friday a friend of mine and girl i grew up with died of a blood clot.
She was only 24 the month before, she had got married in march and had given birth to a beautiful girl 3 weeks before.
The unfairness of it is hard for me to comprehend-her daughter only turned a month yesterday and her mummy didnt even live to see that, let alone her first smile, or first steps or any of the things we often take for granted.
It just really brought home to me the simple truth that tomorrow isnt gauranteed to anyone and that just cos were mums and we're needed so much, we are still vulnerable, and today can be the last-so i guess what im trying to say is while you are able, let your kids know all the time how much you love them, cos one day , you may not have the chance .....
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:20pm |
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Hugs hun, and that is so true
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:24pm |
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big hugs.
thats so true though
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:29pm |
That is so true  to you and your friends family.
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:38pm |
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that is terribly sad....You do reevaluate your own lives when things like that happen
Big Hugs!
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 1:47pm |
Big hugs. It is just so sad....
I have to agree also!
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:01pm |
3 weeks  Has the baby got someone who can look after her full-time?
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:08pm |
i,m soo sorry for your loss big hugs 
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:33pm |
How horrible . But how true. Bug hugs
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:36pm |
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That is really sad. Big hugs to you and the family
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:37pm |
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Big hugs Kelly!
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 2:40pm |
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thanks for your hugs and support guys
yeah Busymum, babies got her daddy to look after her but they will stay at my friends parents for awhile cos her husband is obviously devastated and so nana and granddad can help out with their precious granddaughter.
Baby slept the whole funeral service on wednesday, and her nana (my friend's mum ) held her the whole time and when she got up to speak she said baby was her anchor and she was afraid of collapsing if she didnt hold her
:( and my friends dad started his speech off by thanking her husband,for making his little girl so happy.
It was the saddest funeral ive been to,everyone was in shock it still doesnt seem real.....
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 3:34pm |
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 4:20pm |
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 4:30pm |
big hugs, that is really really sad  it does make you realise how special life is and to value each day. today is the 4th anniversay of the death of a girl i went to school with, she died in a car crash at 20 leaving a young child.
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 5:45pm |
That is so so sad big hugs. Take care
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 6:50pm |
Isn't it awful what some people go through? Life is incredibly unfair, and it makes you so grateful for what you have, and it really puts things into perspective.
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 7:13pm |
Oh my god, that brought tears to my eyes! Big hugs chick, take care of yourself. I've been thinking about you alot the past few days? Must known somethign was up. 
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 7:34pm |
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scary. hugs to you!
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Posted: 07 July 2007 at 9:36pm |
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Very sad
