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james
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Topic: i want aaaa Posted: 30 July 2007 at 2:47pm |
baby and this relly suxs because
1- i dont have a man
2- i live with my parents
3-i dont have my life sorted out yet
would someone please tel;l my silly body this it relly is hreatbrecking (sorry if i offended but i just cant shake this feeling
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 2:49pm |
Find a friend with a baby. That's how I solve my clucky dilemmas.
One day Lu... one day.
P.S. Take up sewing or knitting or something. Knitting for little babies has also provided a positive outlet for cluckiness!
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 2:53pm |
Spend a day at a daycare, lots of screaming babies should do it. My friends baby didn't work - 4 month only smiley happy and didn't cry all weekend.
Summon child birth memories, should help curb your cravings. In lieu of a man - eat chocolate.
As for sorted life, let me know when you get one - i'm convinved by the time mines sorted i'll probably be 80 and die the next day.
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 4:25pm |
thanks guys you made me laugh oh well off to make my "baby" tea
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 5:08pm |
don't be in too much of a hurry to have #2 or another baby. I was a single mother with my first and all my friends were having their #2 and I wished it was me so when I got into my first serious relationship after josh birth (he was 3) I made a stupid mistake to have one with this man. He ended up being abusive and I so regret ever having a baby to him(not the baby though as my daughter I wouldn't trade for the world)It made it that much more harder to leave.
But having saying that i know how you are feeling. Like nikki said suround yourself with friends babies, enjoy James and when the time is right you will have another one. And if not then be happy that you got to have James as many ppl can't have one
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 6:06pm |
Hugs Lu, sometimes being a single mum sucks the big one  . I wish I had some advice, but nothing I say will make the cluckiness go away. Except that sometimes I get to the end of the day and think "why the heck did I want kids in the first place, and why didn't I quit while I was ahead and just had one?"
And if all else fails, just think about how much worse things could be - after all, you could be stuck with Willie
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 10:18pm |
Ohh Luvvy, hopefully it passes. I was exactly the same after I had my first. Hopefully you have some friend with bubbas that can curb that clucky craving.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 8:57am |
i do get to coo over hailstones wee elle today yay  i keep telling myself no you will have to wait but these dam hormoans are driving me up the wall
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 10:45am |
Better yet spend time with teenagers, that should put you off having any more babies.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 1:50pm |
thanks ladys you made me laugh out load and my mum was being nosey after that lol
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 2:46pm |
oh i just read my post I sounded so serious - just wanted you to know that i felt the same as you and ended making so many wrong choices... how ever I did turn my life around and it made me make so many right ones...
You can have my little man when he wakes in the night if you want... should put you off
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 5:07pm |
, Lu.
It'll happen for ya... it's just not happening right now which sux the big kumara. But it will!
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 7:55pm |
You need to find stuff for happy credits. Trust me
When your hormones are telling you that you need something that you can't have, it's sooo hard. You have to distract yourself!
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