Do you ever

Have arguments with your DP/DH and then wonder if your doing the right thing TTC?

DH and I had a small argument last night and I thought at the time hmm is TTC the best thing and what happens if we argue all the time when baby is here because of the stress etc?
Then when we made up (all of 5 minutes later lol) I felt guilty for thinking about the whole ttc thing?!

Am I the only one that does this - what do you guys think etc when you have an argument big or small?

I felt this way when we were TTC our second- I think its natural to have doubts

yes I worried about this too and I still do when we have arguments now. TTC and pregnancy are both stressful times and it's natural for you to clash occasionally as you both readjust to everything.

It's ok to worry about it but I think everyone does. And chances are you will fight when you're pregnant because of hormones and stress and tiredness etc. etc. but whenever we have little fights we try to use them as a chance to handle to conflict better so that when the baby does arrive if we have an argument we are doing it in a constructive way.

oh yeah....and then bubba arrives and you do the same thing - altho you hate yourself for thinking it!!!

we did the whole - "well why are we even bothering then we might as well break up and get on with our lives"

yeah - TTC was stressful...and only when we relaxed and didnt think about what we were doing (**cough "quickie" cough**) did we conceive!!!