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fattartsrock 
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 9:50pm |
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My grandmother died yesterday. yes, she was waaay old. 92. But, the sad thing is she was my Dads mum, and I feel really really sorry for my aunty. She has buried all her brothers and sisters and fathr to cancer, and now Nan. The even sucker thign is that my family (brothers/mother) are a bunch of Drama queens who will all be competeing for the most grieved title, and I am worried that my Aunty, who I think has more loss than all of us, will be swept away in the drama that is my family.
Sorry, rambly.
*sigh* families.
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Maya
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 9:53pm |
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Hugs Annie! Hope the drama queens can keep it to themselves for your aunty's sake. I'm lucky I guess that when my grandfather died everyone accepted that he was in his mid 80's and had had a good innings so no one really grieved a lot, we more celebrated his life. Waaaay less drama than when my nana died quite suddenly years earlier!
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 9:55pm |
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awww hugs hun about your Grandmother - no matter what age I still think you greive for the loss. As for your aunty just be there for her (but remember your grieving time too)
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 9:59pm |
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 10:00pm |
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oh Hon BIG HUGS....I am sorry for your loss
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 10:03pm |
Oh that bites and I remember the things that went on when your dad passed away. Hopefully they don't make too much of a drama out of it.
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 10:04pm |
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fattartsrock
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 10:06pm |
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Thanks guys. Am please she lived in Nelson, so was able to go over lots in the last few weeks and spend time with her.
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Posted: 01 April 2008 at 10:40pm |
Big hugs. Sorry to hear of your loss
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Posted: 02 April 2008 at 7:56am |
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so sorry for your loss
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Posted: 02 April 2008 at 9:24am |
 Annie, I'm so sorry for your loss! Thinking of you xx
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Posted: 02 April 2008 at 10:35am |
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Posted: 02 April 2008 at 11:33am |
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I'm really sorry for your loss. Even when death is expected, like with the ill or elderly, it can come as a shock and be really hard for all friends and family.
I'll be thinking of you and your aunty and hope that any dramas are small and fleeting.
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Posted: 05 April 2008 at 9:21pm |
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sending you my love .thing of you hope to catch up soon luv denise
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Posted: 05 April 2008 at 9:29pm |
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Death Sucks.
