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    Posted: 14 June 2008 at 6:46pm
I was at the shops today and outside the bakery was a family with about 4 kids (youngest was probably a baby about 1). One of the other kids started giving the baby a drink of V and the parents just stood their watching! I can't believe there are such idiots out there!!! That poor baby!

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I have a friend who used to give her baby Mountain Dew from a baby bottle when he was about a year old
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Good Lord, me and DH were shocked when I guy I worked with gave his 7 year old V, let alone a one year old.
I wonder if that baby sleeps through

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I was shopping today and saw a lady trying to give a tiny baby girl must have been around 3 or 4 months old a bottle of red cordial - maybe ribena ?

Crazy

Poor baby she was screaming, no wonder!!
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When Joshua was in the baby room at daycare we used to have to send along bottles and put them all in a special fridge. One of the babies frequently had chocolate or banana milk in her bottles.

The teachers used to hiff it and replace it with standard milk.....
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My FIL used to try and give Jake coke when he was 6 weeks. my MIL went nuts at him....and then asked me to tell FIL that Jake had a dairy allergy as she later caught FIL trying to feed him a banana smoothie.
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Originally posted by joshierocks joshierocks wrote:

The teachers used to hiff it and replace it with standard milk.....


Eeep! The danger in that is that if they were ever to query whether he had a prob with flavoured (sweetened) milk, they would look back on his daycare days and figure he didn't have a problem (obviously cause he wasn't drinking it). Tricky situation!
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No, there was no problem, as there was flavoured milk some days and standard milk others. Just dependended on what the mother had in her fridge on the day.

ETA: She stopped doing it after the director of the centre had a word to her about sending the flavoured stuff.

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People are nuts.

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And here was me feeling guilty that Elle ate a couple of Poppa Jacks yesterday!

Poor kid! Soft drinks, especially dangerous ones like that should not be given to kids, it's just common sense.

I suppose on some level those parents think they are being kind by giving their kids those "treats". I know I found myself feeling "sorry" for Elle when we were trialling no gluten and she couldn't have biscuits and yet in reality bicuits are far from essential to a kids happiness. It is us as parent who condition our kids to thinking that those things are special and desirable. I guess it depends on how we think...we are all so different so what seems horrendous to one parent seems kind to another. Sigh.
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Urghh thats so bad!!!! even I dont drink that crap!

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Thinking on this some more, my sister was blind and disabled and lived in an IHC home.   The part of her brain that signalled that she was full didn't work and she had been conditioned by the staff to want chips, pies etc.   She had major nutritional deficiencies in her later years and needed high quality foods and yet the staff TRUELY, truely felt they were being kind by giving her those junk food items. In reality, it was cruel as she would pack on the pounds and yet still have the nutritional deficiencies.

Although we know that these types of foods are bad we can not assume that all people have that level of understanding. What seems common sense to one person, will never even have occured to another. I know it sounds hard to believe but from my experience, through my sister, it is true.

Mind you, there are some people who have all the knowledge but choose to be negligent....
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I cant believe the number of kids I see walking around with V's or Red bull. Coke is bad enough, but geez dont they have something like 3 times the caffiene, couldnt that give a 1 yr old heart palpitations?


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Thats horrible all these stories, a lot of people will blame the rising cost of milk etc for giving there kids soft drinks, I will not give my young child soft drinks so early.

The one thing I find annoying when at the shops is when some parents just let their kids run around the store screaming and the parents do nothing, ive nearly seen older people hit etc. That is what really annoys me.
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My boys are allowed water and milk ...... thats it!
Isaac is 6, Ethan is 4, Rico is 2 and Hunter is almost 1!
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No child, let alone adults need those addictive, high sugar drinks!!
Isaac is 6, Ethan is 4, Rico is 2 and Hunter is almost 1!
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I remember when me and dp were in a food court we saw a mother feeding her young baby (probably about 4/5mths old) butter chicken!! we were like wtf!!! some people aye

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The amount of kids that come into my work for fillings (sorry before i continue i mean under 5) and when we ask what kind of diet they have "but they only have one glass of coke a day "..wellllllll

I would like to say Caitlyn only drinks water,but unfortunatly, she loves orange juice, but she knows that she has to have a lot more water than juice a day , and the juice has to be watered down .
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Originally posted by PippaLockysMummy PippaLockysMummy wrote:

I remember when me and dp were in a food court we saw a mother feeding her young baby (probably about 4/5mths old) butter chicken!! we were like wtf!!! some people aye



that is terrible the poor babies stomach would not be able to handle it...It wouldn't have surprised me if the poor baby had diarrhea :(

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