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kiwisj 
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 4:50pm |
Did you have one? Who was he? (she?)
Mine was K, we were together about 2 years but were friends for aaaaaaaaaages before that. All turned to custard when we left school but we stayed in touch for a while and then drifted away from each other as you do. He's the one I randomly wonder about "what is he up to these days?" as we still have mutual friends. He got into drugs big time after we broke up so I always worry I will read about him in the paper or something, or that he's ended up in prison 
Anyhoo, he is now facebook friends with my sister!
I hope he sees my wedding photos :P
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 5:04pm |
Mine was DH 
He was going out with my friend, and I remember the first time I saw him. We were at a party and I saw her trying to get him to dance, and he was too shy. I remember saying to our other friend "Ohhh why cant I have someone like that"
A few weeks later I saw him again at the bus stop with a teddy and a rose for her, little did he know she was going to dump him  I just thought he was so gorgeous.
Then, she broke up with him, he was devastated, and decided to keep in contact with all her friends just to annoy her. He was always texting me, and I kept ignoring him. After a few weeks I cracked and we became text buddies... and then the rest is history. That was 8-9 years ago. 
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 5:09pm |
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Awww, kaiz, that's a real sweet story!
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 5:59pm |
Aw that's lovely Kaiz. I had a few boyfriends in highschool but no 'sweethearts'.
DH is my sweetheart but I met him a month after I finished school. I'd just moved into my first flat and it was my flatmates birthday. Her ex-boyfriend who she was still friends with (DH) popped around with a few of his mates and it was lust at first sight for both of us. Nothing happened though, not for a while anyway. My flatmate warned me against him telling me he was a player (she still had the hots for him) and my other flatmate told DH that I was materialistic (he had the hots for me lol) and I was dating someone else anyway.
DH pratically moved in, he still lived at home but slept in our lounge most nights and hung out with us most days and in late February 1997 we kissed for the first time. This created a huge uproar and our flatmates got so sh!tty with both of us that we hardly saw each other for a couple of weeks and definitely didn't kiss again.
Then we started holding hands and stuff secretly under a blanket on the couch while we were all watching tv at night and since DH wasn't working and I barely worked we hung out together most days. In March we had a one afternoon stand which started a secret affair, I broke up with my boyfriend and DH and I eventually decided we wanted to try having a proper relationship and went public with our affair and we've been together ever since - 12 years and still in lust
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 5:59pm |
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That is a cool story!
DH and I met at school originally but as he was a year younger than me I never had anything to do with him. Obviously I was way too cool to hang out with him!!
Wasn't until the night after his 21st that we met up properly and 12 years later we're married with our first baby on the way.
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:09pm |
Mine is really well known now with sport. but we were primary school sweethearts as well. Went on every school camp together from Standard 3 - and so did our dads - to Form 2. We then went to seperate high schools (me girls and him boys) and kept in touch really well until 6th form when his sport was too much for me (every day, day after day). Now I hardly see him (he is overseas quite often training), but we are friends on FB (like everyone ).
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:10pm |
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Mine is DH too, we were 12 and 13 but at different schools.
We dated for 3 1/2 years, but kind of 'grew apart'. After 18months of non contact and seeing other people, we got back together.
A wee while after that we got engaged, then married, then had a child, brought a house and a puppy.
I love my life so much :)
(I hope 'other people' see my wedding photos :P)
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:13pm |
My HS Sweetheart is still one of my very good friends.
We became friends at 15 and never actually "went out". Just hooked up (just pashing  ) and hung out lots. And lots. And lots.
We then left school and went in different directions. But we stay in touch and I still love him (as in, he holds a special place in my heat and past) and he feels the same.
 kiwisj wrote:
hope he sees my wedding photos :P
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:16pm |
High school ? gosh no , too many boys , too little time to just stick to one
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:18pm |
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:28pm |
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Hehehehe, I havent heard that word for ages.
MrsMojo, I love your "holding hands under the blanket" story... Thats so sweet.
I was warned not to talk to DH too, apparently he was just out to get revenge.
I forgot I had a boyfriend just before DH, he dumped me the day I got out of hospital. We were together for 6 whole months (Thats AGES in college years!) Hes STILL with the girl he dumped me for 
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:37pm |
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:40pm |
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 6:44pm |
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DH and I met when we were 5 years old, were great friends until we went to seperate High Schools. Met up again randomly at a bar (good ol Empire!!) when we were 23 years old and here we are, been together 8 years, married for 2 with 1 DD!
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 7:04pm |
kiwisj wrote:
kaiz231 wrote:
I was warned not to talk to DH too, apparently he was just out to get revenge. |
Revenge for what?!
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My friend dumped HIM, so he got his revenge by *pashing* all her friends. I was the last person he tried to make friends with, I was told to "be careful".
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 7:16pm |
I remember the guy I went out before DH told me he "couldnt tell his friends we went out because im ugly"  The worst thing was I thought he was great for going out with me based on my personality!
Its the same guy who dumped me when I got out of hospital
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 7:33pm |
Kaiz...ugly...no way...never!
I cant say I really had a High School Sweetheart.
I went to primary school and secondary school with DH and even had a few classes together in art. One time I remember him saying to me 'nice painting' and that was the only time we ever spoke (I said nothing :P) We even went to the ball together with each others best friends, (so I may have has a slight crush on his best friend ) I thought nothing of DH, or I maybe thought he was a bit of a geek.
It wasnt untill we had both left school that I met him a month later and I thought he wasnt that bad. He was singing in a friends band and I that definately hit a soft spot.
We stalked each other for about 6 months, I would find out where he was going to be and would find excuses to be at the same place. He worked at Pak 'n' Save I worked at woolworths and yet we both would walk across town on our lunch break just to buy lunch
I think the stalking lasted 6 months before we actually talked to each other and the rest was history. Three months after he finally asked me out I was knocked up and 3 months after that we were married
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 7:45pm |
My HS sweetheart is now my DH. I had the hots for him from the time I was 16, engaged at 19, married at 20, mummy at 21 
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 9:14pm |
My HS sweetheart is now my DH too  Although we didn't start officially dating until I had finished high school and he was in his last year (he is 2 years younger). We were friends for about 5 years and apparently he loved me the whole time... whereas I only "noticed" him as more than a friend the year I left high school. We did long distance for a year and then he moved down to Dunedin to be with me and we got married, and now we have baby #2 on the way 
I couldn't be happier even though I never would have seen it all happening back in about 5th form... I would have been like "never!!" LOL
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Posted: 10 February 2009 at 10:01pm |
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I didnt have one, I had to go to a girls school - poo!
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