Bad Day :( :(

I think my emotions are all over the place atm, but my partners sister is really upsetting me, She is his half sister technically and me and my partner are only 19 and have been together for 3 years, we talked about having kids and always liked the idea, then i fell pregnant and we both are really happy

We both want this baby and it is the best thing for us, but she is taking the p**s out of me for being pregnant at 19 and apparently according to her we are only keeping this baby because "we couldn't handle killing it" that was her exact words. How can someone be so cruel We both wanted this baby and now she is getting all my partners mates to laugh at us about it, apparently she wishes i was dead and got pregnant to keep a relationship together...

I know i shouldn't let this affect me but it has made me really upset and angry that a 16 year old can say that and be so cruel........Life isnt very fair sometimes.

Yeah that's exactly what she wants, i am trying to not let it upset me atm, im abit emotional atm so that probably dosnt help lol

Ignore her , shes 16, and the reason she wouldn't be able to understand why you want to keep the baby is because she is still a baby herself , if her behavior is anything to go by .
Unfortuantely you are probably going to come up against this type of thing, it comes with the territory of being a "young mum"
But bugger them , you will have a lovely little baby to focus on and what everyone else thinks wont be important

Yeah she really made me upset, im trying not to let it get to me, The funny thing is she is back living in Nelson with her mother, me and my partner are originally from there and have friends up there and now she is turning my partners against him, well trying too.

She is really immature, just wish she could see how hurtful words can be to people.

and , if she is able to turn your partner's friends against him so easily ,they weren't real friends to begin with

I've got one word for you "KARMA". Just sit back and wait. Something will come back and bite her in the bum soon.

People can be sooo mean sometimes but like the others have said. Shes only a baby herself at the mo. Just concentrate on the fact you will have a lovely wee baby to look after soon.

I feel your pain love. I got pregnant at 19 (I'm now 22) and it was my *Mum* who was giving me crap.
I constantly had it suggested that the only reason I fell pregnant was to keep my partner.

Honestly, as hard as it is, and as much as it sucks, it just comes with the territory of being a young Mum. You need to ignore any negativity.

This is *your* time, enjoy it and just know that at the end of the day, you made the right choice for *you* and that *you're* happy

What a horrible thing to say! Just try your best to ignore her, she is just being a bratty teenager. Sadly you will have to be the mature adult in this situation.

DH was only 19 when we married, and I was 21... and we got heaps of comments about our age. Then when we got pregnant not long after, we got heaps more comments. Honestly, you just have to block it out.

I hope none of your friends are stupid enough to listen to what she's saying, I guess they probably aren't the type of friends you want to keep if they do anyway.

Bubie, she sounds just like my SIL (who is older than me by a year or so though). My SIL told me it was best if baby just died because it was meaning DH is stuck with me. Ah, what? I can see her being one of the first people there to coo over baby though! (she already has one niece on other side of the world who is like her trophy niece!)

Just ignore her, know you are SO much better than her, you don't have to make other people feel sh!t just to feel better yourself. I bet you are a amazing girl, and you should be proud of what you've done.

PM me if you want to just chat even, I'm only 45min down the road, we should try and catch up one day!