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    Posted: 03 April 2010 at 4:59pm
We are separating.

It hurts so bad. I just want to cry! But i cant. He wouldn't even spend Easter with us today because i have to work tomorrow. I cooked a roast chicken for dinner, all the trimmings, he told me he would be back and he isn't. I am falling apart.

Why do i continuously let people walk all over me!

I dont even know what to say, or do. I am trying to keep it together, even though i new this was coming, its still so hard.
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Didn't want to read and run - I don't have any words that can help, but am really sorry you're having such a miserable time

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Big Kandice, so sorry you're going through this.
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Hugs chick, go give that lovely little girl of yours a hug , that always makes me feel better


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Originally posted by caitlynsmygirl caitlynsmygirl wrote:

Hugs chick, go give that lovely little girl of yours a hug , that always makes me feel better


I have been hugging and kissing her all day, im sure she is fed up of it. Only 20mins until the bedtime routine, then i can bawl!
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I bet she doesn't mind :-)
And I sympathise with that feeling , its horrible feeling like you cant cry when all you want to do is let it all out .


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I can feel your pain as well. I have a good understanding of what you are going through at the moment.

I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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thinking of you
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DH and I went through a really rough time last year so I understand your pain.

Big hugs to you. I hope you have a friend or family that you can talk to or so they can give you a big hug





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Hugs Kandice

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oh sweet, i hope you can work things out xx
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We cant work things out. we have tried for so long. Some people here know the history and its been a very long time.

Its just really really hard. He has to find somewhere to live, and feelings are running riot right now.

Thanks everyone for the hugs. I really could do with them.
~ Mummy to a beautiful girl ~
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((HUGS)) Break ups are never ever easy. But, you will get though it! Chin up, and remember that every new beginning starts with an end.
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Our Angel July 08 Gone but not forgotten

And to complete our family, our princess has arrived
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Kandice. I'm sorry you're going through this hun.
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Thanks everyone Does anyone know what i have to do to stop him taking Kylah? I mean like taking her and leaving. I am happy to work out an arrangement for him. But i dont want him to take her and stop me from seeing her.
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