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BuzzyBee
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Topic: Tonsillitis/Tonsillectomy Qs Posted: 11 July 2008 at 8:54pm |
I've had ongoing tonsillitis for years....on/off before pregnancy, all throughout pregnancy ....and 16 months down the track it is now at it's worst! I've had a referal letter for the private surgeon since Lucas was born, I've procrastinated and been on strong doses of antibiotics everytime it rears it's ugly head!
The idea of surgery scares the sh*t out of me (excuse my french)! And before you go giving me a lecture on how important my health is blah blah, I KNOW! It's at the point now where I can barely breath (on top of asthma) and constantly feeling nauseous!
So has anyone here had a tonsillectomy past the age of 18? If so, can you tell me what to expect and don't sugar coat it please ....I have been told once you're an 'adult' it is major surgery ...that and the fact that I often have bad reactions to diff drugs (never been under a general) is enough to send me running for the hills! And the fact I have a clingy breastfed child who totally loses the plot when he realises i've left him in someone elses care has deterred me from going and getting it sorted
I wonder if I can do a day surgery ....come home basically straight after? I do intend ringing the surgeon first thing monday morning to get an urgent appointment, but for now I'm stressing.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated ...and please ignore the fact I'm sitting here feeling sorry for myself that my throat is so damn sore! I only have myself to blame.
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 8:58pm |
I had it done at 16 so close enough. I had to stay over night. I don't think you could come home straight after the op, but maybe if you had a morning surgery (first thing 7am) and you went home later in the afternoon.
Is it southern Cross you have insurance with?? Maybe you can have the surgery done in their hospital and Lucas can stay with you (maybe by paying a bit extra)??
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 9:03pm |
I was 16 too. definitely not a day surgery, and you will need someone for Lucas. there is no getting away from it. I was vomiting blood for a day./ after that, i was good, but a bit sore. lots of jelly and ice cream....and creamed corn was good too.
I think i didn't speak for two or three weeks, but I was also in rehearsals for a show and was banned from speaking in case I couldn't perform opening night.
I would start getting Lucas (and yourself) used to having someone else care for him as a babysitter.
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 9:10pm |
My sis had here's done when she was 25, want me to email her?
Hers was done as day surgery (I think) but she did need some recovery time. She has 2 kids and I took them on holiday to Akl for 6 days so she didn't need to look after them and a friend of hers stayed with her for the long weekend.
I still remember clearly how much mine hurt after the tonsilectomy and as I mentioned in the other thread it's been 20 years since I had mine done. I would suggest you stay in hospital overnight at least, the last thing you need is to make yourself sick trying to take care of Lucas before you're well enough.
ETA: Steph, it will hurt, but in the long run you will be so much happier and healthier and that means you can appreciate and enjoy Lucas a lot more.
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 9:13pm |
Hey Steph, I had my tonsils out at 16, but have had some other surgeries on my nose / sinuses since. All done under GA, and one was a day, the other an overnighter. The great thing about Sthn Cross is that the hospitals are lovely and the staff are fantastic. I think its going to be really important to your recovery for you to have someone that can look after Lucas at least for a few days. A GA can knock you around a bit - it always takes me a few days to recover from that alone, and if you are recovering from the actual surgery as well!
I know that you know its the right thing to do, but obviously logistics need to be sorted, which I am sure can be figured out. Who is your surgeon? Have a good honest chat with him / her about your concerns and if they are any good then they will help you come up with solutions / suggestions and put your mind at ease.
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 9:38pm |
Surgeon is Nick Mcgyver I think, unfortunately I'm not with Sthrn Cross - I'm with Tower!
Will prob sound silly but one of my big worries is the breastfeeding aspect, Lucas still breastfeeds several times throughout the day (5ish on average) and he doesn't take from a bottle. I'm concerned that by going into hospital and not seeing him/being able to breastfeed due to GA he will all of a sudden decide to wean when I finally get home ....or my milk supply will change due to not feeding him. I'm REALLY passionate about breastfeeding, it's a huge thing for me and I don't want to jeapordise it! ....I fear the day he turns around and refuses the breast - stupid huh?
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 9:41pm |
Eep I think I forgot to add Lucas doesn't take expressed milk nor drink from a bottle ...and formula is NOT an option. He drinks water, cows milk, juice etc etc ....
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 9:41pm |
Would he take Expressed milk in a cup??
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 9:47pm |
Steph there are some pretty fabulous natural and prescription medicines to give your milk a kick start after the surgery.
I had an endoscopy under general when Michaela was little and couldn't feed for 24 hours but she went back to Bfing afterwards quite happily.
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 10:40pm |
I was 21 i think maybe older and in the interest of not sugarcoating it i wouldnt go back again however im so glad i went through it my tonsil were driving me nuts. Im allergic to something to do with the general so i was very ill (vomity ill) after and was kept in an extra night but im 99% sure it cant be done as a day surgery. I was in pain for 2 weeks from it but then again they took me off codine because they thought that was what caused me to be so ill.
Ok that sounds scary - In all honesty it hurt but i got through it and im better for it and i had a lot of complications to contend with so im sure you will be fine just keep up with the pain meds and its managable and a really good reason to be waited on hand and foot
I had an ex who had his done and was out having a smoke 2 hours after surgery and at the pub the next night and my sister was over 18 and didnt find it as bad as i did (but still said it hurt)
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 10:42pm |
Oh and the new theory is that the rougher the food the faster it heats as it keeps removing the scabbing which is what causes the pain - i distinctly remember toast being constantly offered and encouraged not ice cream and jelly as my friends had told me
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 10:42pm |
Ohh painkillers, crap I wonder how that will work in with me breastfeeding? I have a feeling I can't have codeine.
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Posted: 11 July 2008 at 10:54pm |
I was 20 when I had my tonsils out and for the first couple of nights after I'd wake up almost in tears because my throat hurt so much (sorry I know you don't want to hear that!!!). Gargling aspirin was my LIFESAVER!! DH thought I was building an addiction to Aspro Clear!
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Posted: 12 July 2008 at 11:55am |
i was 19(ish) when i got mine out. i cried when i woke up after surgery but i think i was just a bit freaked to not know where i was. i got up and had a smoke about 2 hours after surgery (oops) i have to stay over nite but was fine to go home the next morning. i reacted to my antibiotics and ended up vomiting blood. the more toast and stuff you eat, the better you will heal. i felt pretty arse but havent had problems since so i would well say it is worth it for the future or being not so sick and being able to spend more time with your baby
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Posted: 12 July 2008 at 12:38pm |
Hey Steph the fact you have been breastfeeding so long really helps with your milk supply. You probably won't lose your supply even if you don't feed for 2 days. If Lucas has some really fun days with his grandparents he will be fine and then probably be stoked to have you back.
I had my tonsils out when I was 18 for pretty much the same reasons as you, I had constant tonsilitis and it was making me so tired and I was always in pain. I didn't react too well to the general and was out of it for ages. I spewed up heaps of blood too (this isn't a bad thing its just from the blood when they do the op and stomachs don't like blood so they send it back up) and hate to stay the night. I'll be honest it was quite painful for a while but once it was better I was so stoked not to have to deal with tonsilitis anymore. One peice of advice is try and eat most of your food in the morning/lunch because by tea time it was too painful to eat. Also avoid quite strong flavours (curries, juicey things) because they really irritated me too.
The codeine made me really sleepy anyway so I just used panadol.
Good luck you will be fine and so will Lucas.
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Posted: 12 July 2008 at 12:50pm |
I was 22 and it was fine. I actually found the pain after the surgery was less than the pain of having tonsilitis 24/7. The worst part was when it was healing and formaing scabs then when I ate/swallowed it pulled the scabs off and it felt gross!!! (Didn't hurt)
It was totally worth it. I found that when I had tonsilitis I needed about 12 hours sleep each night and even then I always felt exhausted and as soon as they were out I had heaps of energy and only slept about 8 hours each night!
You'll be so relieved to have it done
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Posted: 12 July 2008 at 1:37pm |
I still remember having my tonsills out when I was 4! (nearly 35years ago) & yep things will have changed but I do remember that after it was done it hurt but (with the help of ice cream & jelly - I was 4) it was soooo much better than feeling miserable, which I can also remember, like I was before the op. I was in for a couple of nights.
You can take codine while breastfeeding, I had it after both c-sections but you only have one tab every 12hrs. Good luck with your decision but you will feel soooo much better when your body is not being poisened by the toxins produced by sick tonsills.
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Posted: 12 July 2008 at 3:41pm |
I had mine done when I was 19. Was a breeze, came home from hospital, spent a few days at home on the phone most the time. Panadol did the trick and it was sweet... until I had post op complications - I was the 1 in a million that had a post op bleed (can happen with any operation), so basically had to start all over again with the healing after the second op. Was much worse after that as I had lost a lot of blood.
That all said, best thing I ever did!!! Wouldn't change the horribleness of the second surgery for having the tonsils back!
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Posted: 12 July 2008 at 7:22pm |
I had a GA last year as I had my gall bladder out and I was feeding. You can do it, you just need to talk to the anesthetist and also about the painkllers you can take them ,but timing depends on feeds. Also, you may find he won't feed off you as you will smell funny to him due to the GA. Any Q's please PM.
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Posted: 12 July 2008 at 7:36pm |
steph you may find that even if he cant feed for a day that the next day he is fine with you again. i remember leaving toby with mum about that age and usually he had a breast feed first thing in the morning, but when he was at mums place it didnt faze him one bit... and we carried on feeding to 2.
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