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Emmecat 
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:45pm |
Hi
I think I might be miscarrying.  Started cramping on and off this arvo and bleeding light brown- well more staining than bleeding (sorry TMI). Am gutted. Seeing Dr tomorrow for bloods and scan but I don't see how this pg is gonna work out if I"m going through this now at 5 weeks. Cramping comes and goes and at this stage the bleeding isn't steady but think that might change. 
Gutted.
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:48pm |
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:49pm |
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Oh no! Emmecat, I'm a lurker who is waiting for DH to come around to TTC. I have been following your journey (yes, a bit like a stalker, sorry..)
Anyhow - I am soooooo hoping this is not what you think...I was so happy for you.
Fingers and everything crossed for you...
(just had to de-lurk to let you know I was thinking of you!)
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:54pm |
Aww u poor thing.
Big Hugs 
Hopfully its just bubs being silly.
I had the same thing happen 2 me for about 2weeks between weeks 6-8, its very scary, but im still pregnant now, so fingers crossed its the same 4 u hun.
Best of luck
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 4:54pm |
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Oh no Emmecat, big hugs! That sucks!
I don't want to give you false hope, but I have had two lots of bleeding/spotting with this pregnancy, and had 3 with the gremlins and everything worked out.
I have my fingers crossed for you!
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 5:22pm |
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Fingers crossed for you here too Emmecat!
I really, really hope this pregnancy works out for you hun!
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 5:29pm |
we need a 'crossing fingers' icon but anyway - I hope it's not what you think.
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 5:46pm |
Awww hun. Big hugs and I have all my fingers crossed for you!
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:10pm |
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Big hugs and things crossed from me too
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:12pm |
Oh no Emma. Sending you all my best wishes and positive vibes. That sucks. Fingers crossed so tightly that it will all be ok.
Take care.
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:22pm |
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will have my fingers crossed for you. hopefully everything is ok
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Emmecat
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:34pm |
Thanks everyone, am feeling pretty low. I know bleeding is not uncommon...and it seems to have stopped for now but what worries me is the cramping I have had with it. And this niggly lower right pain that I get when I ov has also been steady throughout this last week. Can anyone tell me if this is what the start of a m/c feels like? The nurse didn't sound positive at all when I spoke to her...kept harping on about 'natures way', which I know is true but still
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:39pm |
All I can tell you is that everything felt "normal" with mine and I still miscarried. The day before it started I had lower back ache (like I get with af) and a few faint moments. My doc came out with the stupid natures way comment, might be true but that doesn't make it hurt any less.
I have my fingers crossed that it was just a scare, when do they want to do a scan?
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:46pm |
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Oh no!! I really hope it's not happening!
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:49pm |
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oh no hugs hun hope it all works ok and that bubs is ok oxx
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Emmecat
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 6:50pm |
I think the Dr might try and get a scan done tomorrow, I really don't know. Not much I can do now except rest with my feet up! The bleeding is not heavy but it still prob shouldn't be happening. I guess we'll see how much my HCG has gone up tomorrow although being Friday I rpob won't get the results back until Monday  In which case I'll prob have the answer either way anyway
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 7:10pm |
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I had an early m/c like you but hadn't done a pg test for. I just thought it was a heavy AF until the cramping and clotting set in. Everyone m/c differently though.
But I really hope it's not what you think. Hope you get answers soon.
PS I know natures way sounds awful but I think she was trying to reassure you that if you do m/c that's the kindest way on your body.
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 7:27pm |
I'm so sorry hun, I too have everything crossed that it will be OK
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 7:38pm |
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Posted: 13 March 2008 at 7:42pm |
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That really sux. So sorry this is happening.
They say that of people that bleed in early pregnancy about half will miscarry and half will continue with a normal pregnancy. I really really hope you are in the second group.
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