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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 1:00pm |
Thank you all so much for your kind words over the last few days. It means more to me than I can explain.
I am ok - emotional and a little bitter, but ok.
I had my D&C yesterday, which wasn't as horrible as I expected. I was under a general so remember nothing, thank God. They have sent the foetal tissue off for genetic testing, mainly because it was my third loss in such a short time. They doubt that they will find anything, but I would rather they at least check it.
My house is starting to look like either a florist or a funeral home (depending on my mood), with a lot of wonderful friends sending me flowers, which I never expected.
Dean and I have made the decision (at least for now), that this is jsut too damn hard and we can't keep on TTC. We have been trying for pretty much 2 years, and had 3 losses. Emotionally it's just to hard to deal with. We ar lucky to have a beautiful little girl, and each other, and maybe trying for more is jsut pushing our luck too far.
Thank you so much for your support. It means more to me than words can say.
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my2angels
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 1:32pm |
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Oh Tarshaa, I didnt realise you had m/c, Im really sorry to hear that. I know how hard it can be, big hugs to you all.
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:19pm |
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:21pm |
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So sorry to hear your sad news, Tarshaa. Big hugs to you xx
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luna
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:30pm |
Sorry to hear your very sad news - hope you and hubby start to feel better about everything very soon.
Sounds a good idea to give yourselves a 'rest' for a while as it's a very hard time right now. Hope things pick up for you soon. 
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 2:59pm |
Im so sorry Tarshaa 
I hope you can get some answers for at least peace of mind.
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:09pm |
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:29pm |
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:37pm |
Sorry to hear of your loss.
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lizzle
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 3:50pm |
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sorry to hear of your loss Tarshaa. i dind't realise you had miscarried. It sounds like you guys have lots of support at home!
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 5:32pm |
Thinking of you Tarshaa.
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Lulu
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:15pm |
Tarsha, big hugs I can't find the right words to give you the comfort that I so want to express, but my thoughts are with you.
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:40pm |
Big hugs
Nothing more to say.....Thinking of you all
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 6:49pm |
Aw tarshaa!!! Lots of hugs and thinking of ya
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:43pm |
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Thinking of you Tarshaa and sending you the biggest hugs
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Posted: 30 November 2006 at 8:45pm |
Big from me too
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Posted: 01 December 2006 at 7:59am |
From me too, I too am very sorry for your loss. Stay strong!
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Posted: 01 December 2006 at 8:56am |
So sorry to hear it! Big Big hugs from me too
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Posted: 01 December 2006 at 11:07am |
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Sorry Tarsha to hear of your loss, it certainly can't be an easy thing to go through. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Take care and big hugs
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Posted: 01 December 2006 at 7:48pm |
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Big hugs Tarsha. I wish tehre was something I could say but I know from experience there's not. So thinking of you and hoping that tme helps the start of the healing process for you and Dean.
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