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Topic: December, January & February Mums Posted: 16 January 2007 at 9:44pm |
Time for a new sticky and for some pregnancy sticky threads to go! So, December mums (that includes Claire and Cherie now of course), how are your littlies doing?
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Posted: 19 January 2007 at 4:58pm |
Hey Teresa,
well done for being the one to start this.
I have been so obsessed with my problems BF that it's hard to look at other progress with Fay, but she smiled at me today, definitely not wind, and it was beautiful, after 6 weeks of walking through this fog I feel like she is a real person and feel more confident to try things. we came home today and she was a bit clammy so I stripped her off for some naked time, she peed on everything, so I might need to perfect my technique for padding her out, but she seemed to enjoy it, even tried her on her tummy and she has such a strong neck, she was lifting her head up and looking around, i think that's what she was doing anyway.
Mum and dad go back to UK on Tuesday so I am trying to give them as much time with her as I can, but strangely i feel oddly posessive about the number of cuddles I get too so it's hard sharing. I hope she repeats the smile for mum before she leaves - it will be hard for them, but we are planning a trip home in October to show her off to the rest of the family.
How is your wee ones Teresa and Cherie, funny how we are all girls this month
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Posted: 19 January 2007 at 6:34pm |
I might make a boy for this month. Fingers crossed on my part there.
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Posted: 19 January 2007 at 8:36pm |
Sticky!
BTW Claire - I still haven't got the 'padding' thing sorted - Mercedes pooed on the playmat for the second time this week coz she keeps wriggling off the damn change mat I put under her!
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Posted: 20 January 2007 at 10:56am |
Thanks Emma, wanna un-sticky Due in Dec and Jan? We're all done
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Posted: 21 January 2007 at 10:00am |
Alright, have a bit more time on my hands this morning (as I rock Krystiana to sleep so I can have a shower  ). Krysti was born on (last) Sunday morning and I stayed two days in hospital before coming home - the first night I got hardly any sleep so after a really settled second night I felt rested enough to come home and have three girls on my hands. Not that I've had to look after them all on my own yet - the one day DH worked, his mum came around for the morning.
Since then Krystiana has been sleeping 3+ hours at a time, she is definitely my most settled baby. She has cluster feeds at 4-5pm (tricky!) and 10-11.30pm  and after 11.30 last night she went right ahead and slept for 5 hours  She had her one-week check (mw) on Friday, has only lost 50g off her birth weight so I'm obviously filling her right up  She's so long and skinny I'm having trouble with nappy brands either not sticky enough to cross the flaps over in front or too wide at the thigh. A bit more fat and then I'll be able to put her in Fuzzis
Your six weeks seem to have gone so fast Claire! I'm glad you've got the 6-week smiles, everything seems worth it after then
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Posted: 25 January 2007 at 12:54pm |
thought it was about time I did an update on Fay, might even get round to writing her birth up at some point as well.
Fay is 7 weeks old today and it seems like forever but has gone so quickly, what did I used to do all day without her?
She is putting on good amounts of weight, i think she will be passed 3.5kg when she is next weighed. As I have discussed, the breastfeeding thing did not work, I dropped that after 6 futile weeks of persevering and heart ache. she is now feeding about 50/50 on expressed milk and formula and I will keep that up for as long as i am able.
We survived her first set of immunisations yesterday, she had a really unsettled day with high tempratures, vomitting and sore legs, I was dreading last night as I was a bit sleep deprived already, so I kicked neil out into the spare bed, so that he could get soem sleep for work and she slept and fed like a dream. I had the best night (interrupted ofcourse) I have had since she came home. Regular Pamol has helped of course
What now? She is seeing a speech and language therapist to help with some of the problems with her tongue and sucking, as she still loses more milk than she gets, she doesn't seem to be able to seal around a teat with her lips and her tongue pushes the teat out of her mouth all the time.
Generally since giving up the BFing I have found a happier little girl who is smiling occaisionally but I think that refelcts the smiles she is getting from her mummy now, hard to learn to smile when her only interaction with mummy is sobbing and crying isn't it?
so that's us, glad Krysti is doing well Teresa and look forward to hearing from everyone else,
Claire and Fay
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Posted: 25 January 2007 at 9:42pm |
Claire, sounds like you and Fay are doing heaps better now. Don't worry about the smiles, Briona was hard work as a baby (silent reflux) and she - and I - cried basically every night for a couple of months  Now she has the cutest smile and even is a bit cheeky!
Krysti is still quite a settled baby, although I'm having trouble with sleeping habits as she wants to be a tummy sleeper and I'm not sure how I feel about that. At the moment she's in our bedroom at nights and the lounge during the day, so I'm letting her choose for now. Either that or cuddle her all day so she won't wake up  Will talk to mw about it tomorrow. It makes me a bit concerned about reflux, although she's not really a crier so I don't know.
The older girls have adjusted much quicker than I expected and Briona is really quite gentle with her (now to teach her gentleness with Hannah!). It's beautiful to see all the kisses Krystiana gets from both of them
I wonder how things are going with Cherie?
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Posted: 26 January 2007 at 6:38pm |
Yeah, I hope thngs are going well with cherie too.
Fay prefers her tummy too, often falling asleep on my chest. I tend to let her do that and transfer her to the cot on her back when she is deep asleep, but the gamble is trying to do it without waking her up, real gamble as she has no pattern for deep sleep, sometimes I can move her after 5 minutes and another time she will wake up after 30mins deep sleep when i move her.
Who said it was going to be easy eh?
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Posted: 28 January 2007 at 9:56pm |
That's much the same trouble I was having but she seems to be pretty confident moving her head so I've decided to let her be. (Don't tell Plunket!  )
Things are going pretty well, tough time is at night. The older girls go to bed at 7 which is great, then I have some time to myself or with DH... but then Krysti likes to be awake from 10ish to 11ish. That's why I'm on here right now (one-handed of course, while feeding/cuddling). But I just sooooooo wanna go to bed!
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Posted: 29 January 2007 at 11:33am |
I have strong suspicion that Fay has inherited our UK body clocks somehow. She sleeps like an angel during the day, you know, feed-play-sleep-feed-play-sleep, but as soon as it gets dark its feed-play-play-play-play-feed-play-play-play.  Hopefully she won't get jetlag when we go home later this year for a trip.
She is having a real smiley day today  , it is so cool. And I have her in some new outfits as she has outgrown lots of the rezlly small things we got when she came home, and a lot of it is not pink which is good for Dad's street cred.
Hope you managed a good night Teresa
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Posted: 29 January 2007 at 11:57am |
thought I would add some now and then photos too
this is fay at 2 days old
Fay at 7 and a half weeks
and one of my favourites
I hadn't taken much notice of the big changes until I looked at our PC wallpaper today which is the first picture, then back to Fay, she is changing so quickly, not a new born any more
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Posted: 29 January 2007 at 11:58am |
sorry they are a bit big, haven't figured out the sizing yet
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Posted: 29 January 2007 at 4:22pm |
 Wow red those pics are gorgeous. Yes it goes sooo fast. Fay was born on my due date, so was going to be a Dec mum but I think my son wanted to get in before his sister's 11th birthday (29/11)
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Posted: 29 January 2007 at 10:37pm |
Thanx Kels, Neil is an amazing photographer so I think I will be spoilt for pictures of her.
Fay was in a ruch for Xmas and wasn't planning to hang around until her due date in January either
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Posted: 03 February 2007 at 10:14pm |
Three weeks old tomorrow  and Krystiana now weighs 9lb 3oz as of Wednesday, gaining about 300g/week which I am very pleased about. She's still very settled, and still likes her 8pm-11pm ish cluster feeds.  I'm feeling mostly good though, have even got some baking done this week... double chocolate muffins!  I get so hungry when I'm feeding lol!!
I've been able to do shopping this week and even visit the park (on a different day) with the three girls, by myself, so I'm feeling very pleased about that.
Now to see if Krystiana is finally ready for bed for tonight or if she's just doing another 10 minute rest before feeding again.
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Posted: 07 February 2007 at 3:15pm |
Well we are packing on the weight over here, how's everyone else's babies doing, especially in this heat? Krystiana is now 10lbs/4.5kgs as of Monday, she was growth spurting last week and boy did I notice! lol
Kels I've just put another batch of those gorgeous muffins in the oven  2 cups flour, 1 cup cocoa and 1 1/2 cups choc chips  No wonder Krysti is gaining weight well
Just started slightly longer sleeps at night, the last two nights she has slept 5-6 hours from about 10pm, wakes for a feed and then sleeps past dawn. Yay!
Three weeks now and I'm aware that I'll be discharged soon... I don't wanna "lose" my midwife tho  lol
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Posted: 07 February 2007 at 4:14pm |
My boy is 8 weeks today and he's over 14 pounds now!!......we must be doing something right huh lolz. Gosh lucky you having baby sleep 5-6 hours, my boy does about a 4-5 hour stint for his first sleep of the night and then back to 3 hours.....ah well I can't complain,he's so gawjuss staring up at me.
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Posted: 08 February 2007 at 12:17pm |
Fay is 9 weeks old today and we just had a wonderful night, she seems to have dropped a feed, shame it was the 10o'clock and not the 2am one, but I have had the best night.
She's grumpyin the heat today and yesterday, but other wise doing well. But generally happy, making lots of cooing and gurgling noises.
On the weight side she is doing well but nowhere near you weights yet, she was stillunder 4kg when weighed last week, but has put on 1.5kg since she was born, so not too shabby really.
Teresa, i was sad when my midwife discharged us, felt like saying goodbye to a friend really
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