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fattartsrock 
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:19pm |
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my sister in law committed suicide this evening im in shock I am shaking i can't think straight im trying to finish jobs i need to get done and im looking for sympathy i just can't beleive it they just got engageds and were so happy and he went to her place tonite they live int he same block of flats and she wouldnt answer and he had to break in and he found her and omg im so worried for him hes a fragile soul im scared he will do the same thing.
FLUCK. Christchurch ladies who i met up with its the girl i brought with me, so happy and nice and a beautiful little girl, i was gonna give you her ph no kandice she really liked you.
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:26pm |
Hi I havent been on here for ages and just read your post.Im so sorry for you.what a sad sad situation that is.is it your brothers partner?thats so awful.I feel like having a cry for her that she felt that was the only option for her.she is going to leave behind many confused and hurt people.Far out.thinking of you....... 
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:28pm |
OMG, I'm so sorry for your loss!! It's such a shame when people think suicide is the only way out
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LuluBelle85
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:32pm |
I'm so sorry hun!
Can't say much other than that I'm thinking about you and your family.
I have been through the same (a friend of mine aged 20 years at the time) so I know how horrible and tragic it is.
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:32pm |
Big hugs. I wish there was something I could. I am so sorry for your loss. 
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:34pm |
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Hey, If you need anything please PM me, I've been there done that, pretty much the exact situation as what you and your family are now going thru.
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:35pm |
OMG Annie big hugs to you and your family.
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:38pm |
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:38pm |
Annie, first of all *big hugs* been there done that etc , horrible horrible situation
second of all, sit down , get yourself a glass of wine or something and allow yourself to let it out-the jobs can wait, you've had a big shock , your allowed to feel out of it
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:42pm |
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:47pm |
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thats so sad, i dont understand how anyone can do it when they have kids, she must have reached a really desperate point...
do they have any idea at all what her reasons may have been?
Where is your poor brother? (is it your brother?) i hope hes got somewhere with a lot of support he can go??
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 10:54pm |
OMG Annie I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, I don't know what to say ...as I've never dealt with this kind of thing before
Big HUGS I don't understand how people can take their own lives, like you said - especially when they have children.
Will be thinking of you & your family, stay strong for your brother - hopefully you both have a lot of support at a time like this
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 11:05pm |
What a truely sad situation especially for her wee little girl. You do wonder what it was that made her feel helpless enough to resort to suicide, especially when it sounds like there were so many people that cared about her.
Hugs to you all
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Posted: 19 May 2008 at 11:28pm |
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I wish I could think of something comforting to say Annie, words seem so useless in situations like this.
My heart goes out to you and everyone affected by it, I'm crying just thinking about how what you all must be going through.
Sending you all lots of love and prayers xxx
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Posted: 20 May 2008 at 5:46am |
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Annie - first of you HUGE HUG - I am so sorry to hear you are having to cope with this.
Suicide is such a thoughtless thing to do - I have had several people around me do it, including an exes ex wife, and a friends husband - one had tried so many times before succeeding, and the other did it to punish a cheatng partner --which backfired cause it left her a widow and free to remarry straight away which the heartless wench did. Sorry!
There will be reasons you may never even know about and this may not be the first time she has tried. It is just so sad that she succeeded - esp leaving a child behind who deserved to have its mother in its life. Noone understands that.
Be there for your brother....make sure he knows that this is a huge loss BUT life goes on and the effect of this loss is minimal in the scheme of things...you need to make sure that if he is contemplating doing similar that he understands it wont affect the world etc and also try and get him some help too so he can be helped to stay here.
is it his baby? the poor bubba....that is so sad.
Again BIG HUGS
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Posted: 20 May 2008 at 6:08am |
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Posted: 20 May 2008 at 6:50am |
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hugs annie. can't relaly think of anything of meaning to say other than we are thinking of you over here and your poor bro.
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Posted: 20 May 2008 at 7:21am |
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Posted: 20 May 2008 at 7:28am |
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Posted: 20 May 2008 at 7:34am |
Oh Annie, that's just awful. Really sad. I'm thinking of ya
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