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    Posted: 19 November 2007 at 10:01am
We found out a few weeks ago that we were pregnant again. Had a dating scan on Wednesday only to find out that there wasn't a heartbeat at 8w4d so not a viable pregnancy

Been booked in for a D&C this Wednesday. Will I have very much bleeding or is it more of a case by case thing? Does it take long to recover physically? Just wondering what to expect afterwards.

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Sorry I haven't had a DandC but big hugs to you hon! Im so sorry you have to go through this! Best of luck for wednesday will be thinking of you!

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oh Leish, I am so sorry to hear that sending you big hugs
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Ohhh Leish, I'm so sorry. I know how excited you all were. Please let me know if there's anything at all I can help out with if you need it.
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Very sorry to hear your sad news Leish.
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Leish I am so sorry! Will PM you.
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Oh hun so sorry to hear this huge hugs xxx

Ive found its a case by case thing. Ive had two D&C's. The second I bled no more than a heavy period and was back at work 3 days later. While my body was up to it Im afraid my mind and heart too a little longer than 3 days though.

so sorry for your loss babe ... much love to you and your whanau xxx

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aww i,m soo sorry for your loss big big hugs
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Oh leish that is so sad. I'll PM you soon.

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oh leish, i am so so sorry to read your sad news. big loves to you and your men.
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Sounds like you have had lots of people replying to you so you know what to expect but just wanted to say Im sorry and hope everything goes ok. Are they going to do another scan? I thought that would have been pretty early to see a heart beat. I know when they thought the twins were to small and there was no heart beat they made me wait a week then did another scan to check there was no growth or heartbeat.
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big hugs Leish!
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Thank you guys so much for all the hugs and the kind words. Its been a rough few days and taking it so much harder than I thought I would in this situation. I am so not looking forward to the D&C. Its kinda comforting to know that the little one is still in there IFKWIM

My2Angels - they said that they might do another scan but when they looked at the scan report they said there was no need. The radiologist said that a baby of that size should def have had a heartbeat.
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Big hugs Leish, I'm so sorry for your loss
    
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Big hugs. Haven't been through the same thing but have had a D&C and I felt pretty much fine afterwards. The bleeding was like a heavy period but I can't recall how long it lasted for. I had little or no pain afterwards.

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