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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 4:28pm |
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just curious as to weather anyone has been an egg donor?
i always see the adds in the magazines and feel so sad reading them, i always wonder if anyone replies to them.
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 4:48pm |
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Theres a girl on another forum that I go onto that is currently going thru the process at the moment. I've often thought about it too, because we've finished our family now and it would be a good feeling to help someone. I wouldn't want to know who I was helping though.
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 4:53pm |
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yea 1 of my friends needed an donated egg a while ago, when i wag PG i think actually.
aparently its really painfull tho?
i wouldnt want to know either
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 4:57pm |
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 5:06pm |
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I'd like to do it when I've finished having my family. I guess the decision of knowing or not knowing the people would be hard
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 5:15pm |
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One of my friends did it a couple of times. She said the first time wasn't too bad but the second was painful. You do have to inject hormones into you so you release more eggs (as they take more than one). Both sets of parents she helped went on to have babies. She knows who they are by name but not close or anything).. I think one set had twins and trying again to have another baby with her left over eggs that they froze. I just think its a wonderful thing she did for those parents..shes just amazing.
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 7:19pm |
I've considered it. I would want to know just so I knew the kids in case our kids 'met' them later on in life- not necessarily on a close basis but enough to prevent any of them dating  I'm going to look into it further when we get back to NZ.
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 8:08pm |
I have thought about it and would want to do it all when I have everything removed.
I would want to know the name of the children for the same reason as Jenna as I wouldn't want our children to end up together.
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 9:09pm |
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i would for friends, but not necessariy for strangers...i guess i want to know my eggy is being looke after.
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 9:45pm |
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lol Liz!
I thought that you have to know who its goes to,..or at least that they are able to track you down so they can contact you about med history etc. Is this not true?
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 9:53pm |
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I've thought about doing this too once our family is complete. Hopefully I won't be too old by then.
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Posted: 26 May 2008 at 1:44pm |
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i've been seriously thinking about this lately......we've completed our family and knowing the struggles that some people have to get pregnant, i'd love to be able to help out if i could.
i 'think' i would want to know about the child that i helped someone to have and would like to get pics at b'days perhaps, but i think that's one of those 'don't know til you go through it' kinda situations.
anyone know where you can get more info on being a donor?
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Posted: 26 May 2008 at 6:09pm |
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not sure i guess if you rang one of the clinics theyd send some info out???
or mabye they have a website???
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Posted: 26 May 2008 at 6:20pm |
I think you could get in touch with Fertility Assoc or Fertility + in AK.
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has anyone been an egg donor??
