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Hi everyone, sad to hear how many of us have had m/c...but interesting to hear how people have conceived afterwards.
I had m/c in Oct 08 and had to have D & C late Nov. Waited one cycle, but despite everyone's assurances that it would happen 'straight away', it hasn't. Getting a bit frustrated, and I'm sure that's not good for conception!
I guess I may need to look at my ovulation times differently now have had D & C perhaps?
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We had a missed m/c in Sept 08. Due to complications during the D&C (perforated uterus and damage to my bowel) we were told we had to wait 3-4mths or we risked doing further damage to the uterus. So we waited exactly 3 mths and luckily for us, conceived straight away.   Went for scan yesterday (saw the heartbeat yah!!) and am now 6 weeks pregnant. Scary though as I now it's still early days. Want to be excited but it's hard.

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Congratulations KarenM thats really awesome news and gives those of us that have had miscarriages real hope for the future! I think it will be hard for you until you have that baby in your arms but as ive been told theres no extra chance of a miscarriage just because youve had one before. Im sure everything will go well for you and i send lots and lots of Sticky Vibes!!

Newbie i am unsure what happens to ovulation times at all, i didnt have a d&c but i still havent even had a AF since my miscarriage almost 7 weeks ago. I dont understand how it all works after a miscarriage at all i guess we just gotta hope for the best.


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Newbie, I miscarried in Oct 08 @11 weeks. Took a bit of a break and have been TTC again. Got AF today so feeling a bit down.

Don't believe everyone who says it will happen straight away, it just gets your hopes up, and I (and many others) are living proof it doesn't. Apparently our chances of getting the BFP are the same as everyone elses.

Sorry to be such a downer, but I just want you to know that you're not alone. I too am feeling very p*ssed off with the whole situation.

Karen - great news! Good luck! I can see it would be hard to be excited. A m/c really does make you think the worst. But look at some of the great ladies on here who have had a tough time and managed to have healthy, happy babies. It can be done!

Good luck to everyone who is trying again!

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i've been wondering the same thing about ovulation/d&c etc. I swear my body isn't the same since i had mine back in Sept 08. My AF arrived today on day 33 which is highly unusual for me. I think that because our bodies have been through a bit of an ordeal it may take a bit longer to come right. I am starting on Clomid again this month, so am hoping it will happen fast. I do think we all deserve some good Karma and should be able to conceive faster if we've had a m/c... if only it worked like that!!
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Hi everyone

I have found ever since I had my m/c I still have the weight from the pregnancy and cant lose it

Has everyone else had this happen to them







TTC#1 Jan 2009
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I had a dnc on Dec 10th - had a period two weeks later Dec 29(4-5 day cycle) I had another period 19 days later on Jan 17th(4-5 day cycle) Had another period 28 days later on Feb 14th, but this period lasted 2 days and two days of light brownish discharge(sorta like when your period's ending) is this normal???
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Girls I'm so sorry to hear about your losses- i know from experience how tough it is to cope w/ losing a child.

Gods blessings to all of you trying again!
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Girls I'm so sorry to hear about your losses- i know from experience how tough it is to cope w/ losing a child.

Gods blessings to all of you trying again!
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Hi everyone, sorry I haven't been on in ages, just seen your lovely comments - so nice having an online support as practically everyone I know has had no problems falling preg and not m/c-ing.

I was starting to get really annoyed not falling preg straight after first cycle in Jan (after d&c). I def think its due to changes in my cycle after m/c (fell preg first time trying after going to obstetrician - she had suggested having s earlier - 3 days after period it happened) so will maybe have s later in cycle now...

So happy to hear your news Karen, and to the rest - best of luck oxoxo
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Thanks for all the good wishes but unfortunately our good news was short lived. We had a scan yesterday which showed the pregancy is no longer viable. There was no heartbeat this time and there had been no change in size since 3 weeks ago.
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Aww Karen im so sorry to hear your bad news...there is no right thing to say in this circumstance but i send you virtual hugs.

Brezel sorry i am not sure how it works after a D n C i had a natural miscarriage hope everything is okay for you now.

Newbie hope you are doing ok too.

I think my cycles are completely screwed now... last one was 47 days and this one is going to be quite long by the looks of it too still no concrete evidence of Oving.


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Oh Karen I'm so sorry to hear your news, that is terrible.

Hugs to you, so sad.

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