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Alan & Bubbles Mummy 
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 8:52am |
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Roksana
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 9:06am |
Oh Deb...we all had those moments....I tell you what its worse when you are pregnant and your hormones are all over the place. And Men will be Men!! Unfortunately!
I think perhaps have another talk with him and explain how you feel and that you feel lonely and horrible and all this negative energy is being passed on to the baby ...so he should try and make you feel better.
Its true by the way....LOL 
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:00am |
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ooh i am having a jammie day too! its lovely, got the fire on, and ice age on telly, bliss!
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Alan & Bubbles Mummy
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:05am |
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sounds fantasic I would love a fire place.
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:13am |
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I'm sitting in front of the fire with my laptop... it's pouring with rain... Josiah's asleep... I've just had a toffeepop... it's all good!
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:17am |
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Hang in there Deb... sometimes men don't understand how much it affects us not to have quality time with them. As they see it they are there with us at mealtimes and in bed, so they don't always see that we need one-on-one adult time after the kids are in bed to reconnect as a couple.
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 12:30pm |
Becca that sounds like HEAVEN!!! 
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 1:26pm |
yahhhh becca you lucky thing....wanna know what I am doing?...I am sitting in my office, working (well....you know) and when I see across the hallway thru my bosses window that it is pouring in rain........ahhhhh .......arrrgggg  
I need a chocolate **goes off to the snack box.....***
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 3:43pm |
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Have you ever read the Love Languages book? It is awesome and a great way to learn to communicate! (especially for men who sometimes just don't get it!)
When Hubby and I were always busy (before the days of flaking out on the couch at 6.30pm) we used to set aside one night of the week as "date night". It was awesome to have time for just us!
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 4:24pm |
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We blob on the couch most nights... but we still do a "date nite" most weeks. Friday night for us is our night, where we watch a movie, play cards or another game or something like that. I will get whatever snack food or special dessert we want for the evening during the day, and as soon as the kids are in bed it becomes "date nite"!
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 5:19pm |
i give up the amount of times we've planned to have date night once a month! it just never happens
yet it's ok for dean to go out drinking with his mate on sat nites!
every night ends up the same, in bed watching tv or on the couch watching tv....the other night i laughed at us..sittin up in bed with our cups of tea reading books!!!!! oh dear!
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Posted: 11 May 2006 at 8:09pm |
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funny you should bring up this post today, hubby and I have been having one of those quiet, serious talks about our marriage today which is worse than a screaming match. He was planning on going away on what I thought was a boys fishing trip but turns out to be an anyone and everyone trip except me the wife of course. I was not keen on a drunken night away from his big fat celebit whale of a wife with a heap of drunk skinny young females and drunk single males! Of course the pregnancy hormones didnt help my reaction.
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Alan & Bubbles Mummy
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 9:33am |
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Paws I have not read the book, but herd heaps about it can't inagine hubby reading tho he hates that sort of thing. Plus I already know mine is deffently quality time. As far as blobbong on the couch I wish I would be happy with that as much as anything he ususally is on his computer which mean's we are not even in the same room. Becca I locve your date night idea so I did put it to hubby and he has agreed as long as I come up with something dor us to do he is not into games and we tend not to like the same movie's so if anyone has any suggestion's please let me know. my2angles I would be deffently have ign a serious chats too that is one thing i would not stand for in saying that my hubby has no social life and would buch rather sit at his computer by himself.
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 4:06pm |
We do date nites too although it only happens every couple of months, we'll go 2 the movies etc. Last time it was sooo cute, Manny brought me wine & flowers so it'd be like a "proper" date *Aaaww*.
If hubby doesnt like the same movies, games etc, maybe u could go out 2 dinner somewhere? Any good restraunts near you?
If that doesnt work you could always try withholding sex hee-hee
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 4:20pm |
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You could do anything for date night really...so long as it is the two of you having quality time...go out to the movies....dinner in the car on the beach, going to the mall.....
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 4:52pm |
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Cool idea's except we relly need to be at home no babysitter.
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 4:56pm |
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DVD night, turn the TV off and have a special meal together...ummmmm....not sure what else....
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Alan & Bubbles Mummy
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 5:02pm |
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I am thinking dvd night would work then we would ot have to talk too much. Hey thanks forall the help i will keep thinking hopefully i can come up with something.
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:46pm |
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We usually watch a dvd or something like that, or play cards, or a game of some sort. We don't normally go out either (same reason - no babysitter) but we do get something special to eat... chips, dessert, something snacky like that, and some drink.
Sometimes we'll have a special dinner after the kids are in bed... they get noodles or spaghetti on toast, then we have chicken cordon blu or something a little more special like that.
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Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:50pm |
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if you have a big enough bath then you could run an extension cord and put the tv into the bathroom, run a nice bubble bath and some nibbles, maybe if you want it to be romatic you could light some candles and watch a movie or listen to the radio. its so relaxing and nice time out time where you dont even need to talk, doesnt need to be a double bath either cos you can fit two snuggly into a normal bath. we dont have bath at this house which Im actually really missing
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