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    Posted: 05 October 2009 at 9:14am
Ok, do your emotions ever go back to normal after having a baby??

I am crying so often now, at TV shows especially!! I watched the disabilities programme yesterday (I think?) and cried because the guy went to Africa and even though the family had nothing (he sponsored their child), they still gave him a woven mat that they had made for him. Now I'm crying watching the Biggest Loser!!! Does this ever go back to normal?? I had never cried watching TV until after I had the girls (not even when pregnant)!!!!
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I must admit after nearly 10 months it has not got any better for me, I am always crying when there is something sad on TV, but its mostly when its to do with children. Although there are somethings that use to upset me that don't so much anymore.
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nope, it gets worse lol!

I cry at everything, its so embaressing sometimes lol!

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Lol aww Kate!

I cant help you obviously as dont have children yet and I am a cry baby at things at the best of times anyway!

But what I wanted to ask is - when is Biggest Loser on? And what channel? Thanks!
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Dal - it's on now on TV3 (started at 9am) - a new series that has just started today. It's an Australian one, and it's couples...so there's father/daughter, daughter-in-law/father-in-law, best friends, husband/wife etc. Looks like it's going to be different to the previous ones - they're on an island (so far anyway!!).

Sheena - DH finds it hilarious because I am NOT an emotional person, I think he had seen me cry once? And now I just have to watch TV!!!
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booboo i was going to ask too:) i missed Attitude though:(

for me it got way better about 6 months after he was born but even though i am never really a crier.. things like that starship ad do make me sad and the stupid bear in the big blue house end bit..lol no idea why...:)

so in general for me yes till i got pregnant again:)
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I cry over songs, watching TV, the other day I cried for nearly an hour after watching the clip where Beyonce sings to the little girl, I NEVER cried before having my girl - I was "hard". Not any more thanks to the hormones!
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I think becoming a parent opens you up to a whole new raft of emotions. Before I had my son, that starship ad would have rolled right off me. Now I find myself clucking over the Johnson&Johnson ads.....
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lol I dont know if it ever gets better, I am still a big sook at sad things on tv

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wow i feel like a really bad person. ive only cried once since my son was born and it was cos he was gonna be put in hospital :S


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I didn't cry heaps but was really emotional in general after mine, until about 1 month after I finished BF Ollie. I think for me the hormone changes just affect me heaps and they have finally started settling down.
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Yep I still cry .. although that might be the residual Elias hormones rather than the Isabelle ones .. not that I wasnt a big sook before becoming a Mum
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nope . My youngest is 20 months and random stuff still gets me !!


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Originally posted by My3Sons My3Sons wrote:

lol I dont know if it ever gets better, I am still a big sook at sad things on tv

yep same here too

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OMG you mean we're suppose to stop?


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I often find my eyes well up with tears at really random things.
But I get extremely emotional at anything sad to do with babies/children etc

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Ok, that's slightly scary!! I well up with tears even thinking of the gy on the Biggest Loser...man it's weird!!
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Originally posted by My3Sons My3Sons wrote:

lol I dont know if it ever gets better, I am still a big sook at sad things on tv



Yep, same here!
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lol!!! I thought it was just me too Kate. Im terrible and have been since I was pg with Jackson
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I never had an issue when I was pregnant, that's what I can't understand...it's only been since I had the girls LOL
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