Lurkers

Remember a few months ago when someone (sorry I cant remember who now) told us she was preggy and a lurker told her family?

Well, now I've got one! As some of you may know, we lent friends a lot (well it was to us anyway) of money and they still us us over a grand nine months later... I have vented my frustration and asked for advice on this several times, and have done this here rather than talking to my real life friends, as I didn't want everyone in town knowing that these people were in serious financial strife. And some of you may also know that the wife of our friend is the sister of another Oh Baby member. The member had asked her sister to help her put photos and a ticker on here, but then went home and used her login and password to look up stuff that I have written. She has printed out messages that I have posted regarding this situation, things I have said about my in-laws and times when I have moaned about Daniel. Apparently, once they have paid us the money back she is going to show it all to Daniel! I just have to mention that I am not in the least bit worried as Daniel knows that I moan about him not doing stuff and who doesnt also complain about their IL's. Our marriage is much more stable than that.

I am so incredibly pi$$ed off about this invasion of my privacy in the one place where I get the most support as a mum, and a place where I consider you all to be my friends. I am on this site several times a day and it has kind of become a part of my life that I miss when I dont come on here. But, this is not going to stop me from posting about stuff like that.

So if you are reading this, my stalker/lurker, then you are not going to ruin this for me. And I cannot believe you have resorted to such pathetic attempts to hurt me when I have never done anything wrong. I also cannot believe you have used your sister like that - she was so worried that I was going to hate her for this, but our friendship is much stronger than that.

Yea, good for you Aimee

oh my god how old is this woman that is school age thing to do good on ya ammiee for not letting this pathic woman push you around

I was going to say the same James, that is so Form 4 high school behaviour. Good on you for saying something. You should be able to say things here and know that other people aren't going to runa dn tell your whole town about your business.

what astupid cow!!!! Print that out too lady!

Aimee! I hope it won't stop you from coming on and having a vent when you need to. We all need to get stuff off our chests!

I think I'm not as free with things I want to say/ask because of the potential lurkers around. I guess it would be alright if I changed my name and also the kids name when I talk about them but figured I just have to get over it and message when I need to. Damned if you do and damned if you don't

Aimee, that really sux for you, and good on you for not being intimidated by it all either - you go, girl! 

And to little miss 'I'll print off what Aimee said and show everyone'... come on now, think about it - a healthy marriage includes each partner getting the chance to talk to others about their frustrations every now and then, that's why women need their girlfriends and men need their mates so much... it's perfectly healthy!  And since when did butting into someone elses marriage that didn't even need "help" ever do anything but make the person butting in look like a total busybody?     And another thing - I once owed money to my mum, and took way too long to pay her back.  She had every right to feel frustrated and maybe even taken advantage of, and if she vented to her friends about it, then good on her!  Our relationship would have been injured if she'd done all her venting to me, she just said to me what she wanted to save for me, which was enough. 

Yeah I had been thinking about that Paws, but on here people can register just to recive the weekly email things and not come on to the forum...

OH MY GOD...what a Biatch!!!

Man I hate people like that. she is obviously got a few screws loose upthere.

All I have to say is what goes around comes around and if you try and hurt Aimee this way, in the nearest future this will come and Bite you in your Arse....I just hope that you marriage is stable....like Aimee's.

Arrrgggg

Big Aimee...hop this does not stop you from coming here and vent!!!

Thanks you so much all you lovely ladies It makes me feel so much better knowing that I have so many friends, maybe not IRL, but friends all the same