did you change your mind

about how many children you wanted.

before we had children my husband and I always agreed it would be two..but now that we have two I am not sure I want to stop at two. but I am not 100% sure.

I did tell him if we were to have a 3rd Id want around a 3 year age gap between #2 and #3. #1 would be at school and #2 probably at kindy

he did mention we would have to move however can always stick #1 and #2 in the same bedroom,. assuming I have 3 year age gap between #2 and #3, #1 and #2 will be 3 and 5 and even though they are boy and girl in the big scheme of things wont matter if they have to share a bedroom for a few years. hopefully within the next 5-7 years we will sell this house and buy a bigger house.

Yup everyday. I only want one but now iv had one i want another one. Well some of the time, when we go through hard times im like no way! but then i get the lovely smiles and cuddles and i want more!

I always wanted two children, now I feel complete with one.

I'm the same HUNTD - we have one and sometimes on bad days I feel like maybe not having another. 

But deep down I don't want an "only child" family.  I did use to think three would be nice, but in reality we will likely stop at two. 

Also depends on the age of the mum.  I will be 35 yrs when TTC No 2.  If I tried to conceive No 3 I would want a larger age gap..... but then I would be more aged than I would be comfortable with IYGWIM (Down Syndrome / trimsomy risk / my energy levels etc).

We agreed on one, then got preg with #2. There will be no more after this one :D

Always thought I wanted lots ,like 5 or more. I come from a family of 2 - so boring!! not enough kids around at christmas growing up. Then I had my first at 31 and though mm maybe 4, now Im like lets just see after number 3. If number 2 is a girl then maybe 4, but dont a want a boy as a middle child so Iguess indecided, but have always wanted a big family

Was going to be 2, now we think 3 or 4

I always wanted 4 or 5, dh always wanted 3

we have settled on 2 and have already done something about it so we hopefully cant have any more

I originally wanted 2 and dh wanted 3, after having quite a traumatic start I decided 1 may be enough! Then a few months on I decided I wanted 3 and dh thought 2 would be enough. Now that we have 2, we've both considered a third and have decided for so many reasons (age, finance, stress etc) that two is enough. Its taken quite a few months to be about 99% sure we don't want a third.

YES I changed my mind lots! At first I wanted 9 (I'm serious!) but then had my first live-in-nanny job and decided 5 would be quite enough.

THEN I gave birth and it sucked so bad that for a year I said I'd never do it again (and I DID mean it) but now am hoping to have one more. And I can't help but think...maybe if the next birth goes ok and I recover well from it we might even think about another one...or two!

I'm lucky though- I have like another 20 child-bearing years left in me so plenty of time to change my mind!