OB FB Addicts group - Opinions please!

Hi Ladies, I was just thinking about the facebook group OhBaby Addicts, which I set up ages ago, back before the official fan page was created.

It became a closed group just because of some weird stalker lady (long story), but it seemed sensible as well because some of us posted our usernames against our real names and not all of us wanted this to be "public knowledge"..

Anyway, now that the official page is running, I reckon the group really is more of something for those of us forum addicts (hence the reason I renamed it), as opposed to people who like OB but don't use the forums.

There is a discussion topic in the group where a large amount of us have given our usernames so people can identify us by our real names, however not everyone has chosen to do this.

So... My question is, would you rather make this group a place where you KNOW that every member is from these forums and who they are? In which case, everyone would need to provide their username so we can verify this, and anyone else gets deleted from the group?

This could mean a place to discuss topics you don't want visible to anyone else like nosey family members or stalkers since there is no locked thread here at OB?

What do you think? Change or leave it as it is?

I think some sort of verification is a great idea.

I think thats a good idea. I forgot I even belonged to the group tbh until the post came up from you

i think its a good idea - it would be nice to have somewhere 'secure' to post those sort of topics we don't necessarily want work colleagues / bosses / in-laws etc etc to read!

Yup I think its a good idea.

Oops I'd forgotten too, I remember posting my username on facebook somewhere, must have been there. Although my username has changed now hehe. Will update it next time my sloooooow computer lets me get into facebook

I'm happy with it being private, if it were not I'd prob remove myself as I have 'revealed' my true identity on there and use my username elsewhere as well.

Thanks Pepsi!

I like the idea that is private too, especially being on FB for some reason I feel I have to be more careful with my identity and personal details on there.

Ha, like I need anymore distraction in my day!

I prefer being totally anonymous on this forum anyway... I feel like I can ask questions without judgement from RL peeps.

Ok, so it looks like the majority want it more private, so I'm going to go through and check who has put their usernames (in some cases I know who you are already)... anyone else will be removed from the group, but of course can be re-added if they provide their username :)

I'll also send out a message to everyone in the group too for anyone else who forgot about it hehe