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kellverona
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Topic: Finding time to make love Posted: 07 August 2006 at 3:44pm |
Another topic about sex. Sorry guys but its on my mind alot lately, 
Just wondering when do you get the time to make love, when baby has arrived. My partner and I dont like the idea of having intercourse while baby in the same room. So when??
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my2angels
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 3:54pm |
when baby is asleep, go to another room. Its heaps harder with two kids thats for sure. But remember, if you have sex when your pregnant baby is a lot closer than just in the room!
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 3:59pm |
We haven't quite got back into it yet but we're just waiting for the mini-pill to take full effect, and then we will probably just do it in our bedroom as usual - our girl sleeps in her own room so no issues there.
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 4:11pm |
Ditto, our little one will be in her own room so no issues there for us either.
Otherwise just go into another room.
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 4:16pm |
Same our girls went straight in their room. Another great time saver is to do it in the shower lol lol nothing like multitasking
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 4:25pm |
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 4:37pm |
lol, reminds me of me! we had our first daughter in our room for AGES! 13 months, and in that time had concieved our second daughter. we waited till she was asleep and sometimes put a blanket over the sides... not that we did the deed much (my hormones ran away!)
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 5:31pm |
haha how bout having sex with someone that isn't the baby's father?!?!?
zeke was a bit weirded out by it, but then as a male, got over it pretty fast!
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 8:18pm |
Lol... how about having sex with one kid in the bed next to you (infant) and the other playing on the floor beside the bed (pre-schooler)!
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 8:32pm |
lol are you serious Becca? what about performance anxiety?
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 8:42pm |
Nah, we were quiet, Josiah was asleep and Kiya was busy playing making huts under blankets on the floor!
Nat: "Performace anxiety? Who's worried about performance!"
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 8:43pm |
Obviously there wasn't enough time to get anxious Robyn
Go you Becca!
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 8:49pm |
man we dont even do it if we have someone else in the house let alone in the bedroom, we are such prudes hehe.
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Posted: 07 August 2006 at 9:43pm |
I'm with what mum2emj is - asleep, blanket over the sides. Its not the same but then is it ever with kids in the house. I live in fear of one of the kids walking in when we're not expecting them!
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Posted: 08 August 2006 at 8:46am |
LOL - theres nothing like the horror you feel the first time your kid walks in on you in the middle of doing the deed. The worse is when they give you this big grin cos they know exactly what you were doing and then like to watch you squirm when they ask.
When Christopher was really young (under one)and we were all in one room we did the blanket on the sides and were really really quiet. Lets just say that we didn't stay with that set up for very long!!
When we told him earlier this year that we were going to start trying to have a baby he advised that we needed to start having lots and lots of sex and that he would not disturb us when our door was closed - bless
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Posted: 08 August 2006 at 8:54am |
lolol that's cute and disturbing all at the same time.
We did the blanket thing too, but other than that would have a big mink blanket to put out on the ground in our lounge in front of the gas heater (come on, we didn't have a fireplace, lol)
I must say i love having no kids in our room anymore, lol.... although i will say that the bext 'relations' are when you know baby is due to wake up, and you have to be quick, lol.
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Posted: 08 August 2006 at 9:05am |
lol!! I don't even like doing it if someone is sleeping over... It took me ages to even not be weirded out by Joey in the next room  Actually maybe that was just an excuse so I wouldn't have to "do it" at all hehehehe  Well and truly over that now though  LOL
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Posted: 08 August 2006 at 4:01pm |
shower is a great thing..... as for us, x didnt spend much time in our room (one awful awful night before she was booted out to her own room) so that wasnt an issue. we had to learn to be quiet though as the walls were paper thin in the last house. this house we are in opposite ends to her room, so we can pretty much do whatever, whenever.. and we do...
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Posted: 08 August 2006 at 5:59pm |
Oh dear, it could be a problem if your a little worried about being "watched" & Bubs is in the room with you.
Never really bothered me while Alex was little, but he was generally in his own cot anyway.
Once we did it while he was wide awake on the bed beside us though. Spencer reckoned that he needed to learn by watching the best anyway...cheeky blimen male.
Now Alex is abit older we tend to keep him locked out of our room but only coz he was asking us "what's that???" Lol & I donb't think he would understand the "birds & the bees" talk yet!!
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