OMG!!!! DH wants another baby!

So... there I was getting all of Caitlin's newborn stuff out (stuff she has grown out of) and was sorting it to put it all on Trade Me.
Hubby walks in and goes "don't you think it would be better to keep all that for number 2?"

Before we had Caitlin we always talked about only having ONE child and after a "not so nice" labour, we agreed that she would have to be a spoilt only child (in a nice way tho )

and now look!!!!! in the words of the late Steve Erwin "CRIKEY!!!!!!"

hehehe awww Corys the same lolol i was like OK then im game if u are, if u can handle the swearing and mood swings and blaming you then sure and remember thats not even labour LOL

Argh. Poor you ! We're both thinking at least not for another year, if not two ! Silly Brent

ohhhhhhhhh how cute Aaron wants one more and so do I but told him he will have to wait till he teaches me to drive

I only ever wanted two children but now Im having second thoughts, hubby on the other hand is still adamint he only wants two but even after such a horrible pregnancy and saying i would never go there again Im thinking maybe it wasnt that bad surely......

Yea Daniel has said to me that he only wants one and wants to get a vasectomy but i have talked him out of that because two reasons. 1. He is only 27 and may want another child someone where down the track and 2. I want two children.

Daniel said he would like more kids if he can just drop me off at the hospital and come back when I'm done!! lol. In fact he doent want me to have to go through labour again - such a sweetie. But I think we want one more, not for a few years tho.

Mike, In the very early days, always said he didn't want any kids. Once we had Paris, he was happy with one.. then along came Ayja.. (i had always wanted 2 at least) and well, sometime she still is adamant that 1 would have been fine (usually when they are both being grotters and he's had enough of them beating each other up)   we always thought it would be so hard to get a vasectomy cos we are only 24. nope. He has booked himself in for the 9th October. So in Around 2 weeks, all thoughts of keeping any options open for a "maybe baby" is a few years... will be gone.   Realistically, I know we couldn't probably afford or have enough time, for another baby, especially with both working and trying to fit in enough time for our 2 girls right now.. but sometimes theres that little "what if" still there, because4 i think we still have plenty of love to give another baby... and there's the wondering if the next one would have been a boy (i know it wouldn't have, it would have been a girl again i bet)

So right now am, well, not grieving, but kinda just making peace with the fact that my preggy and baby days are over.

DH and i are both from families of 3 kids. i've always told him i wanted 3 if the first 2 were the same sex and he's only ever wanted 2.    now...i know this will be the last one we have, i haven't enjoyed this pregnancy that much. it's most likely another boy but i know if i tried for a girl, it would only end up in us having 3 boys...no thanks!
so, i've accepted the fact that i will probably never have a daughter