TTC again - an answer to grief?

It's been 3 weeks since I miscarried, 4 weeks since we found out our baby had no heartbeat.

I am feeling much better. I don't cry every day, I am back at work and coping well. I am back at the gym, loving my new found energy and am enjoying having my body back. BUT, I really miss being pregnant, I miss my baby, I miss having a new baby to look forward to. I had just adjusted to the whole idea of my life changing forever, and my dreams were snatched away.

In spite of all this, I feel ready to try again. We got pregnant on the first go last time so I am feeling very grateful for that as I know how hard it can be for others.

What I am worried about is wondering if it's too soon to start trying again. How will I know? I don't want to think that being pregnant again is the answer to taking away the pain. Will I still miss my first baby? Or am I hoping the next pregnancy will replace it?

Any wisdom gratefully accepted.

It was for me! I was desperate to get pregnant after each miscarriage, I figured it would help me to get over the last one. Hard when you have 3 though....in hindsight I probably should have waited but time wasn't on my side so got on with it. I dont think too much about what I went through now, DD has definitely taken a lot of the pain away. I did cry a few times in the early days just after she was born - I wondered what they would've looked like etc. I have a picture in the hallway just outside our bedroom of 3 hearts so when I walk in or out I see it. They represent my 3 angel babies

I felt all the things u discribed til I got preg again,...we knew I concieve very quickly- 1st month of trying every time, so waited til I fel really ready physically,...that took longer than emotionally- I wanted to ttc staraight away to ease the pain of the loss cos I desperatly wanted to be preg again and forget that all of a sudden I wasnt preg anymore.
In hindsight I wish we had waited longer. Its been really tough doing the whole 1st trimester twice with only a few months gap (plus the exhaustion and recovery time from the severe blood loss after the mc). I feel like Ive been exhasuted this whole year- which I have,...plus emotionally I found being preg again very hard/ stressful. On one side it was a massive releif to be preg again,...but on the otherhand every second I was petrified I would loose the baby again,...I literally held my breathe hoping I wasnt going to find blood everytime I went to the loo for the first 9 weeks of pregnancy,...and even now at almost 15 weeks Im still worried something might go wrong,..although the anxiety has lessened a lot.
Find yourself a good midwife- mine has been awesome- I contacted her at 3 weeks 6 days preg- as soon as I got a bfp,...we decided mot to tell people as early as we usually do this time, so it was awesome to be able to talk to her about how I was feeling, plus she organised multiple hcg blood tests and 4 scans before 12 weeks which helped to ease my mind.
Good luck for whatever u decide to do.