Hi, sorry you're having problems :(
With low sperm count, if it's below 10 million/ml then generally IVF if the offered 'solution', where they use ICSI. My husband has low count (<5 mil), low morphology, and low motility last test. We paid for private treatment through fertility associates (FA), who put you on the public wait list if you get enough points to qualify. We've just done our first public treatment - a long waiting game, but for us saved a lot of money. I think paying for initial consult etc is worth it to save those extra months, as the IVF wait list is very long.... 12 - 24 mths.