ok, you’ve got to be kidding

mum just rung me and told me my little sis is pregnant again, and due in august. ARGH!, you have got to be kiddingme. Since xmas not only has she been drunk a considerable amount of time but don't think she has taken any folic acid etc, and has also had full on xrays. Anyway, she is back with Bailey's dad and they told mum "if it's another boy we'll adopt it out, if it's a girl we'll keep it" what is it? an old couch? oh we don't like this anymore - its not the model we want, lets give it away?! Mum told her if she gives another of her grandkids away she will never forgive her.

oooh i could just kick her A to the double SS

( i know i sound deeply hypocritical since i am too preg with number 3, but her other two are 2yrs old 1 yr old and she has neither of them, I actually take care of my kids)

Am seriously peed off.

janine that is terrible...those poor kids. i had to check the date on the post to make sure it wasnt an old one caue i couldnt believe she as preggers again...!!

Janine your sister need more than what you want to give her. A baby no matter a boy or girl is great. She seriously needs some talking to.

How old is she? I'm shocked at her comments and I guess what the other girls have said is completely right. Maybe a little intervention needs to take place.....

Oh wow!! this sounds exactly!! like my SIL!!!!! she found out she was having another bubs (has had it now though) at 5 months along after doing all sorts of naughty things!!! she already has 2 kids who were 2 and 1 at the time and she never looked after them and could barely provide for them!!! and she had the nerve to babble on to me (who was having TTC problems at the time) that it was an "accident" WTF 3 accidents!!! how careless!!! and she too was going to give it away if it was a boy!!!...it was a girl! GGRRR some people!!!

He he, there's the prob, she is highly highly allergic to latex.. ie, huge blistery quick reactions (they already knew this sort of but made the mistake of using a latex catheter after one of her ops a few years back. not nice)

My sis, currently, is 18.

I think she has known for a while - and so has mum, but just kept it secret.

And Emma - i soo know what you mean. Can i ever have a baby without her doing the same - it's getting crazy. maybe that's another reason i am so grumpy.. my babes are always overshadowed with her dramas. Now i sound sooo childish, but argh.

and well - since she is due before me this time - we are now keeping our mouths shut about names, considering her last few choices. I know - we have all had the "you can't bags names debate" lol. but seriously the last 2 preg.. we have had boys names, and ended up with girls - and what do you know - her boys got those boys names.

ending rant now, have officially had far too much of her.

wow - your sister should get together with my cousin - she is 23 and has had three kids, all either abdoned or given away - and when i say given away i mean, some guy on the street said what a cute baby and she said "here take her" and left.

but anyway, thats a WHOLE nother story- sucks about her being preggers - hope she can do the right thing! whatver that might be?

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And Emma - i soo know what you mean. Can i ever have a baby without her doing the same - it's getting crazy. maybe that's another reason i am so grumpy.. my babes are always overshadowed with her dramas. Now i sound sooo childish, but argh.
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I just want to add it is perfectly ok for you to feel like her drama's over shadow the thing's you are doing it is also ok to be really pissed about that. I know I would be.  So most deffintly not childish.

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ROFL!!!

just as darn frustrating though i bet!

I guess, in all of it, the last two times ihave been preg or had anewborn, i have had to not only deal with all that, but also with my mum constantly ringing me up and offloading all her problems and worries about my little sister onto me.. the first time it mixed in with all my PND, and not only did i have all those probs but also enormous guilt that i couldn't just go and be the hero, noboddy saw i had enough probs of my own, in the end mike told mum to stop ringing me if she was going to talk about my sister.

I still feel guilty and selfish, but why not. it does, as you said Renee just make you feel like your special things are overshadowed by the drama. So much so now that she does not know where we live since we moved, and she is not invited to my kids parties - for the simple fact she causes a scene and i finally decided after a few too many outbursts that she has no right to ruin my kids birthdays etc. black sheep aye.