Haha her feeding time will settle pretty quick as she gets the hang of it. Get some books out from the library
The other things for settling reflux babies that worked for us was (1) wrapping them (#1 didn't much like wrapping but #2 needed it) and (2) settling them for sleep on their tummy - just make sure the head is on its side. For some reason this settles their tummies better than lying on their back. You should keep a good ear on them if they are on their tummies tho.
Andie I'm glad Ella is a bit more settled and more happy for ya, it sure helps in those early settling days