Decisions

Emmecat wrote: Flissty wrote: nicandtyler wrote: basically it was me doing all the hard work lol and then explaining to DP which has worked well for us <IMG border=0 src="smileys/smiley17.gif"> Ditto <IMG border=0 src="smileys/smiley1.gif"> same here lol

Us too.

Well when it came to the vaccination question anyway.    I did all the legwork, condensed it the best I could, gave him a chance to provide input and then TOLD him what we were doing!

Overall, I armed myself with knowledge, knew where to go to if it all turned pear shaped and took it from there. Some decisions, like the vaccination one is 'open' in that the decision we make now might change in the future if we feel it is warranted BUT bf was non-negotiable for me as was when baby would get weaned.

So if he hated that I wanted to bf he'd have to have gotten over it. PMSL He never mentioned anything about the fact that DS2 was still bf at 12, then 18 months so he was either being quietly supportive or wisely keeping his thoughts to himself! bahahahahahaha He was all for me bf, not sure he'd still be all for it if A hadn't weaned at 18.5 months though and was still going at just turned 3.

monikah wrote: me and DH decide everything together. we are the same though and pretty much agree on everything. it also depends on the other experiences you have. ... i probably get to pull the strings a wee bit more as i am the one who is around them more but he will always put his 10 cents in over things when they come up and we work it out 2getha

Same here. We have very different backgrounds and TBH mine probably shows up stronger in our family as we're extreme as far as his family is concerned but they are very buttoned up lol luckly for me DP is his familys wildcard I do generally lead on ideas but yep we're a good team.