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    Posted: 07 April 2009 at 4:39pm

Why did it have to happen again (3 m/c), Why when I went for a scan at 7 weeks was there a heartbeat and everything was fine and now 3 weeks later there is no heartbeat, I was so postive about this preg and I had no reason to think it was going to end (I still have sore boobs and ms)

Its just so not fair and I dont know what to do with myself, and I so scared about the DnC tomorrow I've never had one before.  But they are going to do blood tests to see if there is a reason why it keeps happening

Sorry about the rant but I didn't know what else to do



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I couldn't read and run. I am so sorry to hear of your losses. I'm sorry there is nothing I can say to make things better. I do (sort of) understand how you feel - I too had a heartbeat at 7 weeks and then started bleeding at 11 weeks to be told I'd lost the baby earlier (this was despite all the reassurance that there's only a 2% chance of m/c after seeing aheartbeat....). There is no logic at times like this, just a lot of pain and heartache. Like you I also 'felt' preg after finding out I'd miscarried, thankfully the D and C fixed that. I hope you get the baby you are hoping for one day. Massive hugs to you!!!
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Dont be sorry for having a rant you need to get it off your chest and writing it all down somtimes helps a bit. My best advice is to be kind to yourself.


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Aww Hun. Im so sorry
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Lee-Jon just wanted to offer my condolences im soo sorry for your loss hun.


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My heart goes out to Lee_Jon. Sending you big hugs and lots of positive thoughts for tomorrow.   

Fingers crossed the blood tests give you some answers.   

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss,
I had my D&C last week today is the first day that I as starting to feel better,
Know that we are all here to support you ox Rant all you like, oxox


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I can't answer why, but I hope you get some answers soon.


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Oh hun

I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, not once but 3 times. It isn't fair!

I hope you get some answers soon and that you are feeling better now the DnC is over.
HUGS - we're here for you, just come online and vent whatever you need to.
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