QuoteReplyTopic: Why??? Posted: 07 April 2009 at 4:39pm
Why did it have to happen again (3 m/c), Why when I went for a scan at 7 weeks was there a heartbeat and everything was fine and now 3 weeks later there is no heartbeat, I was so postive about this preg and I had no reason to think it was going to end (I still have sore boobs and ms)
Its just so not fair and I dont know what to do with myself, and I so scared about the DnC tomorrow I've never had one before. But they are going to do blood tests to see if there is a reason why it keeps happening
Sorry about the rant but I didn't know what else to do
I couldn't read and run. I am so sorry to hear of your losses. I'm sorry there is nothing I can say to make things better. I do (sort of) understand how you feel - I too had a heartbeat at 7 weeks and then started bleeding at 11 weeks to be told I'd lost the baby earlier (this was despite all the reassurance that there's only a 2% chance of m/c after seeing aheartbeat....). There is no logic at times like this, just a lot of pain and heartache. Like you I also 'felt' preg after finding out I'd miscarried, thankfully the D and C fixed that. I hope you get the baby you are hoping for one day. Massive hugs to you!!!
Dont be sorry for having a rant you need to get it off your chest and writing it all down somtimes helps a bit. My best advice is to be kind to yourself.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss,
I had my D&C last week today is the first day that I as starting to feel better,
Know that we are all here to support you ox Rant all you like, oxox
Oh hun
I'm so sorry you've had to go through this, not once but 3 times. It isn't fair!
I hope you get some answers soon and that you are feeling better now the DnC is over.
HUGS - we're here for you, just come online and vent whatever you need to.
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