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Lisha 
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Posted: 11 May 2007 at 7:36pm |
I find this rather embarrasing, my 17th month has just started this weird thing, that she humps her toy cow... not sure why she is doing it... my husband laughs and she thinks it is a joke, while I am freaking out in the corner!!  Is it a phase?? hope so, I am not sure where she has got it from!!! Help!! 
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Posted: 11 May 2007 at 7:48pm |
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they do it cause it feels good... but it is normal.
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Posted: 11 May 2007 at 7:50pm |
Really??? Do they grow out of it??
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Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:23pm |
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miss two at the moment like to have her hands between her legs to put it nicely.......i am hoping this is normal too. sorry to hijack the thread...
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Posted: 11 May 2007 at 8:50pm |
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I've heard that little kids often play with their bits as a nervous sign but that's the limit of my experience.
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Posted: 11 May 2007 at 9:27pm |
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when i taught in Japan, the little kids were always at it! Jake now prefers to go around with no pants on for "easy access". I try to teach him that he can do it, but at home, prefereably in his room - not really for when we visit nana...
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Posted: 11 May 2007 at 10:09pm |
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We have "mr rubby pants" He likes to rub down there... and he is four. The only rule is that he has to do that in his room.... I'd rather it not be in the lounge room!!! I guess he'll grow out of it....
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Posted: 11 May 2007 at 11:23pm |
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Jack rolls onto the ball with wee bumps on it and kinda rolls back a fowards on it. There is nothing wrong with it, if you don't really like it you could try teaching her thats what we do in private.
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 7:45am |
She isn't rubbing.. its the humping!! I am sure that she will grow out of it, thanks for the replies!
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 8:39am |
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she will grow out of it...its not a sexual thing, just feels good. toby humps on the bed and laughs while doing it. its prob the same to them as shaking their heads or spinning round in circles.
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 11:05am |
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Yeah, it must be! over paranoid (sp?) mummy!!!
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 11:40am |
A friend of ours a while back had mentioned this and most girls will sit down and rock on all 4s or hump things because it feels good and is perfectly normal just like when the boys never leave their doodles alone!!! which is also normal!! wev just tried to tell Bay that it is a private thing so he is not to do it in public!
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 1:02pm |
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does he understand that it a thing to be done in private. i have tried telling tash that its a thing thats done in bedrooms in private but she does it everywhere????
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 10:29pm |
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LOL you dont have a dog do you? they often hump toys and maybe she saw it....???
I dunno - she will likely grow outta it tho
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Posted: 13 May 2007 at 5:45pm |
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I thinks its normal & all part of growing up & discovery our bodies & what we find pleasurable.
Some of us are happy with our bodies & some of us are exhibitionist.....
Some of us are not so happy with our bodies & hide....
I think as long as the child concerned is made aware(maybe not fully understand, depending on age) it is private stuff to be done in private- but also not something to be considered as "dirty" IYKWIM
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Posted: 14 May 2007 at 4:23pm |
Haha, no my parents have 2 jack russells and the youngest one does hump hard out on this huge teddy bear!! Maybe she has seen jess do it! Lucy hasn't humped her cow now for 3 days!! 
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Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:35am |
jack always humps  he humps when he goes to bed at night, humps when he gives you cuddles.....
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Posted: 15 May 2007 at 11:08am |
 Lisha wrote:
Haha, no my parents have 2 jack russells and the youngest one does hump hard out on this huge teddy bear!! Maybe she has seen jess do it! Lucy hasn't humped her cow now for 3 days!! |
what is it with Jack Russels...my mum has a miniture fox terrier (similar) and she has always humped things...mainly the cat! who tolerates it!
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Posted: 15 May 2007 at 10:38pm |
yeah we had a small dog years ago that humped any male who was sitting down on one of our sofas - but only if they were wearing jeans....weird and by time we normally realised person was wearing jeans it was too late...
LMAO at Jack too!!! maybe it is the name?? Jack - Jack Russell....LOL!!! 
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