ivf treatment

Oh Olijoy I just don't know what to say aye! Hang in there. I know of a couple of IVF ladies recently that had bleeding and are now well and truly pregnant so don't give up hope...it really is a rollercoaster ride. I'll be thinking of you, do let me know what happens.

hi ladies,

had my BT a day earlier than expected, so had it today and it's confirmed failure! oh well what else can i say and do except to move on and try again...unfortunately i can only have one embie put back again in nov. same as this time so chances are one is to none again but hopefully next time it will work. Any of you knows or have any idea why a transferred embie never develops and AF came? will the embie dissolve by it's own i really have no idea how this things happen all i know is that it's heartbreaking but nevertheless don't loose hope one day it'll be my turn to have the lil baba i've always wanted...time to heal my wounded heart and mind!

Goodluck moogle for your BT Tom..

Hi Olijoy, so sorry to hear your news. It's just absolutely gutting when you get the confirmation of what you suspect, even though in the back of your mind you think just maybe there is still a chance.

You really need to take time out to grieve and to do things you enjoy. Go and have a facial or do something for you, it is a good distraction.

In regard to why, my specialist said that the embryo just decides for itself whether to stick just like it decides whether it'll be a boy or girl if it does stick. There is absolutely NOTHING you could have done, it's out of your control.

Perhaps your chance will be with a frozen transfer - they say that sometimes the more 'natural' cycle, without the drugs, can be quite successful!

Don't lose hope, there are options out there for you. Thinking of you

Thanks ladies... i will be fine maybe it's not my time yet better luck next time! It's just depressing when you know you have sacrifice a lot just to have a baby and yet you failed I have given up my job a long time ago just to focus on this, i wanted all the good outcome so i stop work even do it's recession and struggle financially coz we were so determined to focus on the baby but sadly to say i have to wait till november to try again so my mind is confuse should i start looking for a job again or wait? Thank you again for the support, concern... Hopefully next time i would be back again with a good story to tell!

Moogle, I'm so happy for you congratulations! Don't feel bad for me I will be ok! the important part is you succeed and that's something we ladies would like to hear at least one wish is fullfilled as for me I will have my turn soon. Let us know how your doing I would love to know your journey...