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busymum
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Posted: 19 June 2007 at 11:58am |
 I'm so sorry.
There is a m/c section and Mum2Paris (Janine) recently posted her story in there (and a few others besides).
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minik8e
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Posted: 19 June 2007 at 2:35pm |
Well I'm about ready to strangle some doctors and demand serious investigations to find out just what the heck is going on with me. My hcg has come down to 17, from 28 a week ago - not typical of a m/c. According to the doc, the scan is indeterminate. An ectopic cannot be ruled out. An internal was painful. So next step, an urgent appt with a gyn first thing tomorrow morning.
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busymum
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Posted: 19 June 2007 at 3:30pm |
Fair enough. Personally I wouldn't want a D&C based on a Doctor's assumption
What is typical of hcg with m/c? I know it's supposed to drop but I don't know the numbers. At a guess I would have said what you said sounds about right
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minik8e
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Posted: 19 June 2007 at 3:44pm |
Apparently it's supposed to drop quickly...whereas I went down 1 over the space of 2 days, then 10 over the space of 5 days...I dunno much anymore!! I just know that to date, I've been bleeding for over 2 weeks, and something needs to be done...because no-one can say why.
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ginger
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Posted: 19 June 2007 at 3:47pm |
Oh Kate, that's awfull!
All the best for tomorrow morning!
I've always said, and I'll say again, that there's a reason they call it the medical practice!!
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minik8e
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Posted: 19 June 2007 at 3:58pm |
I agree ginger - I just wish rather than keep testing for the same thing, they'd look to see what is actually wrong instead of maybe this, or maybe that.
DF is just as frustrated as I am, although the thing he is most concerned about (being a man and all) is when we can have sex again, as the doctor told me not to have sex cos if it is a miscarriage, semen can cause an infection in the uterus while it's healing. So all he wants to know is when he can get some action again!!! And thinks I'm being too soft and should get angry with the doctors to get some action....whereas I'm just not that sort of person.
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Snickerdoodle
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Posted: 19 June 2007 at 5:02pm |
Mini - I hope your DF is as concerned about your physical and emotional well-being as he is about having sex.
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minik8e
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Posted: 20 June 2007 at 1:43pm |
Well, have had my appt with the gyn, have been given a tablet or two to move things along, they're 99% sure it's a miscarriage. Then I have my cervical treatment and a laparoscopy on 16 July. My hcg results are still at 20 (they went up in the last 2 days) but yeah. At least now we know.
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busymum
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Posted: 20 June 2007 at 2:27pm |
Well I'm sad for you but I guess at least you can still have your treatment. Hmmmm that's not much comfort
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Posted: 20 June 2007 at 2:32pm |
Sorry to hear of your loss, I guess now you can get your treatment, and on the plus side at you know you can conceive. Look after yourself and be gentle with your body.
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mum2paris
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Posted: 20 June 2007 at 5:04pm |
Aw i am so sorry, good that they finally found out and got answers for you.. waiting to see what things are happening sucks!
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Posted: 20 June 2007 at 6:39pm |
Minik8e,
Im sorry to hear that all is not well. At least now you know relatively what is going on. It can be so frustrating not knowing. I know this wont help you feel any better, and you will work thru it in your own time, but I guess this is my ham-footed way of saying Im thinking of you.
Take care hun! 
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Posted: 20 June 2007 at 9:00pm |
Sorry to hear you are having a rough time, look after yourself
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Posted: 21 June 2007 at 8:10am |
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Becca, mum of 2 girls & 3 boys
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