To find out or not...

hehe I wont say a word on there

We didn't find out with Jude and won't with this one either. We like surprises. Well, I think we like the build up more than the actual surprise. With Jude we kind of made a game of it - asking each other what we thought it would be every now and again. DP and I had a weird thing where every couple of nights at bedtime we both say "hmmmm what do you reckon it will be? Boy or Girl?" and then have a guess or say something funny about it. It's not a tradition or anything - just happened like that. It sounds weird but it makes us grin so we thought we would leave it a surprise this time as well. It was fun wondering. At the baby shower everyone guessed the sex, DOB and weight of the baby (and gave the guesses to us, we have them still) - the closest to real date, weight and sex won a prize after Jude was born. So we had fun wondering who was right!

Originally we thought we would like the surprise at the end but the truth is we like the not knowing during pregnancy better! When Jude was born we didn't even think of looking to see what sex he was until my midwife said something about a healthy boy about 5 minutess later and we were like "Ohhhh, it's Jude! Hey Jude! Hey Jude!" Lol and then the student midwife couldn't keep from giggling - I presume she was thinking about the Beatles song. It makes me laugh.