just to add to this, and to bump a little

I will be as discrete or hands on as you need me to be. Sometimes having someone there to help with massage etc is great!
I will meet you as many times as you want prior to the birth - with or without your midwife so you can get to know me.
With the other births I was a support person at, I went along to their antenatal appointments with them and got to know them and their m/w.
I am still in touch with both families, and both gorgeous children I was so lucky enough see come into the world.