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Nope, I'm loving it (even with MS and feeling like I've been hit by a truck) . But I thought I'd post since you mentioned you felt guilty about feeling that way when some people can't get pregnant. I think the fact you feel guilty about that (and therefore have the sense to realise you're very lucky, even if you feel rotten) and for that reason probably wouldn't grizzle and groan about how much you hate being pregnant in front of others who could be struggling makes you a nice person, not the other way round.

You can't help how you feel, and it's nice of you to keep in mind that some people would give anything to feel that way, no matter how much it sucks.

I really hope it gets better soon

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I hated the pregnancy but loved the fact I was pregnant. Just because you have had to work a little harder than most doesnt mean you automatically just love pregnancy.

It was hard and I felt like crap all the time and completely felt judged because of it. I was actually told by my MIL that I "must just enjoy it" and my SIL practically stopped talking to me at all because I was grumpy all the time.

I think its important to voice your feelings and not bottle it up and not feel guilty about it! Harbouring ill thoughts can never lead to good things especially with all those crazy pg hormones flying about the place.

Hope it gets better for you hun.


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I was the other way around... with my 2nd baby I was sick all the way through, and was on 3 diff meds to keep it under control, and included a few days getting some fluids pumped back into me (6L of saline in 24 hours!) at around 9w. My first time the same thing happened at 16w, but then it stopped as suddenly as it started, and pregnancy was a breeze from then on (until the birth, but thats a whole different kettle of fish!)

I am hoping that my future 3rd and final bub will be a little kinder to me... oh for a crystal ball!


Emmecat... something you'd like to share with the rest of us? Your post left a LOT to the imagination...
Brandon - 05/12/2003
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