thanks Ladies so much for all the ideas , it was awesome . brilliant things that i hadent thought of at all , i have decided to go with your idea Weeheebaby - of the couples devotional bible , i have just orderd it now, i know they are people that dont like to have alot of "stuff" around them so i didnt want to get the anything that they wouldnt use and i really do think they would read this .

thanks heaps for the idea .