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busymum 
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:19pm |
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No I'm not leaving, LOL!
As Hannah gets older I am becoming aware that I should probably be teaching her this phrase for when we/she leaves someone's home. But I have a problem with it. It brings with it a sense of "I'm sorry I was a burden to you by coming to visit" - or at least in my mind. Do you agree, or is it just that as a kid I had a very poor self-image? And if you also don't like it, what do you/your kids say instead?
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meow
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:23pm |
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I get Ella to say that.
I guess my mum must have made us say it too.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:25pm |
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I make Maya say it, maybe not in those exact words, but she does have to say thank you before we leave someone's house.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:26pm |
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We'd probably just say Thank You and leave it at that
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meow
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:28pm |
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The way I see it: you were a guest at someones house, therefore you are thanking them for their hospitality.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:49pm |
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I'd use it. I think it's just being polite
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:54pm |
Andrew always Thank you whenever he has been at someone's place. He will also say it when ever he gets given anything aswell.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 8:21pm |
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thank you for having me is what i would maybe get the kids to say if they had stayed over.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 8:32pm |
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My daughter has always had to say thank you. I normally get her to me a bit more specific like, thank you for letting me play at your house...play with your toys...stay the night with xxx....stay the night at your house....stay for dinner etc. IMO it was getting her to think about what she was thankful for.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 8:40pm |
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if we have been somewhere and kobe has been playing with other kids toys etc... then he says thanks for letting me play with your toys... or something to that effect and if someone has been babysitting him i get him to say thanks for having me or looking after me.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 8:45pm |
i always get jack to say 'thank you for *whatever it is*' 
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 9:53pm |
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My Kids say it.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 10:23pm |
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I still say it! Just habit I guess. It's basically a kiddy version of 'thank you for your hospitality' - I think you'd be pushing it to get a kid to say that somehow!
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 11:23pm |
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yep my kids say it every time they go to friends place etc... I think its just common curtisy and I don't think it makes them feel like they have been a burden.. its alwasy replied by 'it was a pleasure' or 'they/you were no trouble'.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 11:38pm |
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I still say it! lol. I think its nice to get them to say it- Charlotte just says thank you, bye and zooms off to the car usually.
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 7:59am |
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I still say it too and I plan on teaching Ashlee the same.
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 8:42am |
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I say it and have taught Christopher to say it as well and he doesn't need prompting anymore. We, and he, always gets the biggest compliments on how well mannered he is. It's not something you see all that often these days.
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 10:06am |
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Ella is very good at thanking people, I think she enjoys the compliments she gets on her good manners!
I still say it too, one of those ingrained habits from childhood!
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 1:12pm |
My girls always say thankyou for.... .......whenever we have been somewhere and they also say thankyou for coming to visit, play, stay etc to guest we have at home. Its really just nice to teach children manners. My girls are very polite and always use their manners and like Leish said its nice to have compliments on your child manners
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