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caitlynsmygirl
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Posted: 25 October 2008 at 6:39pm |
hmm, well no offence to your friend, but imo being chosen as a bridesmaid is an honour , and if she doesnt appreciate it as much as she should , thats her problem ( i know that still sucks tho )
but OMG ....F O U R T E E N DAYS!!!!! FOUR ....TEEN !!!!!
eeekness !
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Sooze
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Posted: 25 October 2008 at 7:25pm |
Hi there
Was wondering if you ticker has been updating and if it is still 14 days to go?
I am now 16 weeks pregnant and getting married on the 1st November and would not wish it on anyone at this stage.
People can be so inconsiderate and very un helpful.......
If I could do it all over again there is no way I would be pregnant and doing it.
We got engaged in Feb this year and started IVF in April so this year has gone super fast.
My heart goes out to you
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mum2paris
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Posted: 25 October 2008 at 8:51pm |
congrats on your pregnancy sooze, this year has gone very fast indeedy. when we changed our date around in march this year i thought that november seemed ages away. but OMG you're getting married in 1 week, and I'm getting married in 2 weeks (8th nov) and november has come so fricken fast it's not funny.
We are nearly all sorted, just figuring out flowers. since now it's only 2 bouquets, so am unsure if i will still go with original florist who is fairly pricey, or just get some of the flowers i like and do them myself. now working on chocolates and all that stuff. finally at least finished organza bags since my MOH came over the other day and sat with me and ribboned them all. which was a huge help. I can't beleive it's all coming up quick now. eeeeeeek.
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Posted: 25 October 2008 at 8:53pm |
*checking in that the bride is doing ok*
*checking out - all ok  *
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Posted: 25 October 2008 at 9:25pm |
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caliandjack
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Posted: 25 October 2008 at 9:29pm |
caitlynsmygirl wrote:
hmm, well no offence to your friend, but imo being chosen as a bridesmaid is an honour , and if she doesnt appreciate it as much as she should , thats her problem ( i know that still sucks tho ) |
That's not entirely fair, I had a friend who I really wanted to be at our wedding, but with travel and two kiddies, it just wasn't going to work.
I'm thankful to those that did come, but you do learn that other peoples lives are more important to them then yours is.
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mum2paris
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Posted: 25 October 2008 at 9:53pm |
yeah i understand too, but thought she may have been better planned than to ask her friend to bring her to the wedding only 2 weeks before. still. i understand cos it's not like ihave any way of help[ing her get here either.
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Maya
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Posted: 25 October 2008 at 10:40pm |
What about a bus? It wouldn't be that expensive I shouldn't think?
I am so excited for you Janine, I can't wait to see pics of the big day, you guys have had such a long journey to get here and you are such an inspiration
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caitlynsmygirl
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Posted: 26 October 2008 at 3:43am |
mum2paris wrote:
yeah i understand too, but thought she may have been better planned than to ask her friend to bring her to the wedding only 2 weeks before. still. i understand cos it's not like ihave any way of help[ing her get here either. |
Thats what I was meaning, better organisation etc, seeing as she wasnt just a guest, but a bridesmaid , and i figure she was chosen as one for a reason , but in the end, unfortunatly , some things just cant be helped .
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Posted: 26 October 2008 at 3:30pm |
Maya wrote:
What about a bus? It wouldn't be that expensive I shouldn't think?
I am so excited for you Janine, I can't wait to see pics of the big day, you guys have had such a long journey to get here and you are such an inspiration  |
If you talking from New Plymouth then they are cheap as.
Ya so excited fou you both.
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 26 October 2008 at 3:43pm |
caitlynsmygirl wrote:
hmm, well no offence to your friend, but imo being chosen as a bridesmaid is an honour , and if she doesnt appreciate it as much as she should , thats her problem ( i know that still sucks tho ) |
This comes from Nigel (for those who don't know Nigel and Janine went to school together along with the now ex BM), figures as much still can't get herself organised for someone else.
But from me, I am glad you have it sorted and it is just you and Carmen (you too will look fab). Hope everything else works out for you.
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AnnC
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Posted: 26 October 2008 at 6:04pm |
aww shame we weren't coming down that weekend we would of brought her.... in saying that theres always a bus but it seems she has made up her mind not to come! Suxie for you i am guessing but I am sure your wedding day will be just the way you want it
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Posted: 26 October 2008 at 6:20pm |
*lurker in*
Just checking that the bride is calm and collected!
I fell for you babe.... Hope it all comes together nicely and you just have a fabulous day...
*Lurker out*
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