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Just another one here to say that my wee one never drank as much as the tin said, never even close to it. Also he would never get into a 3 hour pattern the most he ever went between feeds was 2 hourly, this was on the breast and also when weaned at 3 months. He only went 3 hourly once solids were introduced. Some babies just need to feed little and often.

I expressed full time for 4 weeks and did half and half for about 6 weeks so it is doable but then my boobs went off like sprinklers for the pump or for Spencer or from me just thinking about feeding Like Emz said though sometimes things can get in the way but I found the best thing to do when mixed feeding was to pump off the side Spencer wasn't feeding from and then when expressing full time I would pump every 3-4 hours and would try to do it when Spencer was asleep . I invested in a double pump as well so could express a whole feed out in 10 mins. Also I didn't dry up from expressing I stopped cos I kept getting infections so it is possible to keep pumping for long periods so long as you aren't infection prone.

With your plan I also agree with whoever said just let him have the week, don't introduce any top ups just yet and just see how you get on with the more relaxed attitude towards feeding. And don't panic about not getting much out expressing, some women just don't it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with your supply.

If that doesn't work then I think your plan to give a formula feed before bed is a good one, that way he only has one bottle a day so boobie will still be the norm and he is less likely to reject you for the easier bottle and you never know a few weeks down the track you might be able to dump that bottle feed again.

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You guys are awesome!! There is so much hope in these comments. You've all given me a bit of your time and I can't say how much I appreciate it.

But to be honest, I am not sure I have it in me much longer. Jackson is just refusing the breast time and time again after just a few minutes of sucking.

We had one feed last night, where he swallowed greedily for 13 minutes, so I know what a full feed should be like. Every other one over the last 24 hours has been rubbish. I don't understand why he is not starving. When I am not trying to give him the breast he is really happy.

I thought he might have a sore throat, so I took him to the doctor but he said everything looked fine.

So, I have these boobies just full of milk and I can't even express it as I am so upset and stressed. I just don't see how this can continue.
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This might sound a little odd but have you tried feeding him in the bath? The water will relax him and you and if he refuses then just let him snuggle into you for bit so he gets the skin to skin without the stress of feeding. Might help you relax a bit as well as they can definitely pick up when mummy is stressed out.

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Great idea Marisa!, Benjy loved feeding in the bath!
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That is a good idea - he loves the bath, so I will give that a go.

I'm over my big cry at the moment, and the upset has been replaced by determination again!! I am such a rollercoaster of emotions at the moment.
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Well, Jackson was weighed on Monday, and put on 200g in the last week.

I was pleased with that, so have moved to phase two of the plan - just letting him feed for as long as he wants.

It's a little stressful, as feed times have got shorter again, but I am trying to just relax and not get upset at all. Hopefully he surprises me and keeps gaining at a good rate.

Will keep you posted....
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