Annoying...

LOL Becks

Anonys me is DH doing something wrong then thinking hes all innoncent and I am the one being 'over dramatic cause I am pregnant!!' GRRR

In fact males in general who blame our point of veiw on 'Oh shes got her period, or oh shes pregnant' or being asked is it that time of month

What's annoying me, is when my flatmate drinks (as in alcohol) and then plays with my daughter.

Though I have talked to her about her drinking and being around my daughter.

On Wednesday she was playing with my daughter and I knew she'd been drinking, as there was a cask of wine laying on her bed. So I went down there and said, how much have you drunk, she's like, only about 1 glass, while slurring her speech by the way. And you so don't do that after 1 glass... So I told my daughter to get upstairs and told the flatmate, you know the rules, if you drink you stay away from my daughter as I don't want her around alcohol.

I mean the first time this happened she was trying to undress my daughter for a bath and by the way my daughter can do that herself. I told her leave her and she'll get undressed herself. Went upstairs and heard my daughter crying. Went down to check, flatmate was trying to pull my daughters clothes off, though I'd told her to leave her be, she kept trying to undress her, I said "put her down and let her do it" and she kept trying to undress her, so I said "put her down now!", "as you are stressing her out and she'll see having a bath as a negative thing and I don't want that". So finally she left her alone and said "it's ok I'm a qualified Nanny" to which I responded "if you were her nanny you would be getting fired right now".

It was partly her trying to undress my daughter why I was annoyed, but mostly because she'd been drinking.

What made me snap and go a bit mad at the flatmate was a few weeks ago when I was on an important phone call, toll call about my Mum being in hospital. And my drunk flatmate kept picking up the other phone every 20 seconds or so. I would keep telling her to stop it and it happened all throughout the 45 min phone call. So then I got off the phone for an hour so she could use it. Got on the phone again, which was also a toll call after an hour and she kept doing the same thing.

So the next day I was a bit harsh and approached her while she was cooking tea (so she couldn't walk away) and told her that wasn't on and to sort out her drinking, as it's not on. I didn't get a sorry from her about the phone crap, just an excuse, which was "oh I was trying to call my Dad in Oz".

She is 34 you see, so I expect some more maturity.

I told her look, maybe seek some counselling and deal with your issues, instead of drinking you troubles away, as you may have noticed, they don't go away and it only makes things worse.

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I so agree with these two! That annoys the hell out of me too!

rachndean wrote:

Oh and people not indicating at roundabouts!!!

bexandantz wrote:

Mmm But people indicating to go straight at a roundabout (by straight I mean if the exit they are taking is directly opposite the one they are coming from) pisses me off!!!!



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bexandantz wrote: rachndean wrote: Oh and people not indicating at roundabouts!!! Mmm But people indicating to go straight at a roundabout (by straight I mean if the exit they are taking is directly opposite the one they are coming from) pisses me off!!!!

umm you know its in the road code you have to indicate going off the round about even when going straight dont you lol

I also hate the - my boy is sick and all you get back is 'oh he has that too or ohh I had that last week'

hubby leaving dirty washing by the kitchen door instead of putting it in the wash house or in a pile in the bathroom - and I dont mean behind the bathroom door!
when hubbys expects me to know where everything is eg undies. when he doesnt put them out to even wash!

I cannot stand the word 'doona'!!!! It absolutely grates on me... and DP says it sometimes just to annoy me!

I also get wild with tail-gaters, esp the ones that fly up ya rear and then drive a metre from ya bumper on the open road... what is the point??? I'm always telling DP i wish I had a flashing sign in the back window that I could type different messages into to tell these annoying people what they are doing wrong!

Bex I thought you have to indicate in and out even when going straight through? mind you I never do the in one as it seems ridiculous!

Next thing for me: I made a mistake a few weeks ago at work and now everyone knows about it but it has blown way out of context and I am annoyed with that. Thank god he goes back to Burnham in 5 weeks and counting!!!

freckle wrote: I also get wild with tail-gaters, esp the ones that fly up ya rear and then drive a metre from ya bumper on the open road... what is the point??? I'm always telling DP i wish I had a flashing sign in the back window that I could type different messages into to tell these annoying people what they are doing wrong!

Freckle you can! Check them out!

kiwilaurie wrote: Freckle you can! Check them out!

OMG that is so on my christmas present list !! mind you I'll probably end up a danger on the road constantly typing in my driving feedback to fellow road users