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We aren't keen to have ANY kids there - it's just not a kid-friendly venue, with creeks and sand bunkers and people playing golf (the golf club isn't shut, only the club rooms from 3pm). I'm not going to let it stress me though, if they turn up on the day, there's not really a lot I can do, is there? So I'm not stressing!! (much anyway)

Kelly - you're getting married the week before us Only reason I worry a little about my dress is because it's being made, and I've never seen it put together as a dress...so have all my fingers and toes crossed it still looks good!!!
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id definatly make sure you tell people that it is a kid free wedding,
my cousin didnt tell us infact she still hasnt! her mum told us about a week ago.
i have no problem with it being kid free at all
but did think it was a bit rude that shed left DH and the kids off the invite and it didnt say it anywhere on it, but then we thought perhaps she just ment all of us to go anyway untill we were told it was kid free.
so id just make sure you let people know otherwise they will probably bring the kids.


DD 10.5yrs
DS 6yrs
DS 11mths
5 little angles watching from above
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The info sheet says it's an adults only event CatzKids We've also verbally told all of our friends.
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I think it's a great idea for the gift part. As DH and I didn't have anything getting all the 'homely' stuff was perfect. But I struggle getting wedding gifts for people so knowing what they want is such a bonus.

2 friends of ours wanted donations towards the honeymoon and another friend wanted cash to get bigger stuff like a dining table etc. I think it's great then everyone gets what they want.

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I think its fine even if it was child friendly i wouldn't want to take my kid it would be a good excuse for a grown up day out.

Im going to a wedding early next year and they registered at a travel agency to pay for their honeymoon which i think is an awesome idea (how much do you spend on a wedding pressie last wedding i went too had no pressie bring a plate instead cos they were on a budget and had alot of people to feed)

i think you cant send out invites to early some people appreciate alot of notice makes arrangements for kids travel and time off cheaper and easier.
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Originally posted by minik8e minik8e wrote:



Kelly - you're getting married the week before us Only reason I worry a little about my dress is because it's being made, and I've never seen it put together as a dress...so have all my fingers and toes crossed it still looks good!!!


eek! I dont know what dress Im wearing at all, will probably have to by it off the shelf tho , bit late to get one made


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Are you having the standard white? Cos there's some gorgeous wedding dresses to cater for baby bumps now...I had a look between finding out I was pg and having my m/c in September.
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are there ? yeah im having the standard white , people can have a good chuckle to themselves


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