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lol

Im married to DH but my name is hyphernated (sp?) as his last name is Brown (BORING) and I dont have a middle name so Kylie Brown for my entire name would have just been way to boring so my last name is hyphernatied so its a little more interesting, anyway DH did not want Jaydens last name to be hyphernated so he has his last name (Brown) BORING but we have my dads name as Jaydens middle name so I have a piece of me in there

My parents werent married when I was born (Im a bastard child!!!! ) I was 5 when they got married but mum had given me dads last name anyway

I recon its personal opinion, and what you feel comfortable with is all good!
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after reading all the posts im going to put my 2cents in!

nobody can tell you the right name for your baby so do what is right for you

when i have a baby with my DP im going to give it his last name- only because i dont like mine (family problems with my dads family after he past away) i was actually going to change my last name to my mum maiden name (and make my current last name another middle name- to remember my dad)

now im going to wait until we get married and take his last name (can i make my last name another middle when i get married?)
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Originally posted by helen2289 helen2289 wrote:

(can i make my last name another middle when i get married?)


Yes, that's what I've done. I was F..A..S.. and then when we got married became F..A..S..B. I just got my passport amended (sent in my wedding certificate and said "please change it to x" - probably had to do a form as well) and I've had no problems - IRD, work everyone accepted my new name
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LOL LF yep I made that joke too - did not go down well either - men

When you get married you can choose to use your married name or maiden name. Birth certificates aren't changed anymore so if you want to keep your maiden name no dramas and if you want to change then just present your wedding cert - very simple. Same with changing back - when me and ex seperated I just asked the bank, ird, etc to change back and since they already had my birth cert it wasn't a problem.

You can change your childs name by deed-poll but if the fathers name is on the birth cert then you need his permission - of course if its not you have all the power Just been through this so yeah Chickaboo is right with the pricing.

Tania I guess it really depends on your daughter about the name. Shes still quite young so thats why I thought changing her name (or even hyphenating it) might be easier coz of course if she was 13 she'd probably have a very definite opinion but she may actually have a good idea of what she wants right now! I also thought that as there doesn't appear to have been any other father figure in her life she may really identify with your DP as her dad. Hope you guys find what works for you
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