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Glow 
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 Posted: 27 September 2007 at 4:13pm |
All guys "look" & "think" it depends on the depth & how they go about it in my book. I think talking is great & opens you up entirely. Sexually, emotionally & mentally. So it would depend on the depth of their talk to what their boundaries are. And from then???
I think they look coz they always want what they dont have & difference is good
Weird buggers!! 
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:58pm |
 aimeejoy wrote:
I try not to think about the magazines that are in the smoko room at the mechanics where DH works... |
Believe me, truck drivers are as bad as mechanics...
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 7:59pm |
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But I agree with some of the others tho, while it doesn't unduly worry me, if the images were even remotely questionable I'd be having him up about it, I don't think I'd be ok with having that stuff in my house or on my computer, and probably even being with someone who is interested in that stuff.
Hugs to your friend Clare, I hope they can sort this out between them somehow.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 8:51pm |
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Run of the mill porn dosen't worry me in the least, i find it "laughable" even. Rod looks at sites sometimes, and never hides it from me, he will often call me over to look at something stupid. We don't have magazines in the house, thats not us, but we soemtimes get movies (we belong to DVD unlimited) I don't find them a turn on at all, but I do get a luagh out of it. The way I see it, he's open about it, and its very very occasional. I would rather him look in the windows than go in the shop as it were.
However, anything super sick, you know, Involving kids/young girls/rape degredation/animals etc, out side of the relms of "normal" sex, I think is SICK and if its hidden, then it is far worse. I would defiantely call him out on it. As far as I can see, when you are in a relationsahip, there are NO secrets.
Big hugs to your friend, that sux big time.
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Posted: 27 September 2007 at 9:41pm |
She should be grateful he isn't looking at gay porn. 
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 9:30am |
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Um, well actually thats what it was.....
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caraMel
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 9:40am |
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Now that is alarming, I was thinking along the lines of s&m.
I'd definitely have to talk to my partner and find out what was going on with that.
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 11:04am |
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DH looks at porn and has it on our comp where it is unaccessible to the kids. I knew this before we met and he has never hidden so as far as I'm concerned if all he's doing is looking I'm fine with that.
In saying that he only ever looks at what I call "normal porn and nothing questionable. I would have a problem if he was hiding it and I would have a major problem and be seriously creeped out if it was gay porn. For her own peace of mind she needs to talk to him and find out what's going on.
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Jay_R
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 12:07pm |
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Update!
She asked him about it, and he said that he would never go on sites like the ones she saw on purpose - apparently he plays a lot of online games (poker etc) and they keep popping up on his screen right in front of where he needs to click the mouse and he keeps opening them, purely by accident. She told him to prove it, so he started playing a game, and sure enough within minutes a dodgy site was open on screen.
So, he's out of the dog box, and she's so relieved!
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 12:10pm |
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Phew!!!!
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Posted: 28 September 2007 at 1:48pm |
Woah, I bet she is sooo relieved! 
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What would you do.....
