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mummy_becks
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Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:36pm |
Well mine is far better at sticking to a list than me so I have no problem with him coming with me. I find it easier him coming with me so one can get the food and the other usually holds Josh.
chovynz go shopping for your beer tomorrow at PNS 
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Chovynz
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Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:40pm |
what time?
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Jennz
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Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:44pm |
I never let mine come with me- I get nagged because "do we really need orange juice" yet he will buy tonnes of cr*p because its on 'special'. He thinks by buying things on special we are saving money- but if they are thing we wouldn't have bought in the first place it doesn't count! He almost bought BBQ coal the other day because it was 2 for the price of 1... we have a GAS BBQ
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mummy_becks
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Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:48pm |
Anytime you'll get a shock
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busymum
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Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:50pm |
jennz wrote:
He thinks by buying things on special we are saving money |
Yup that was the sum of my budgetting knowledge when I got married. Learned in a hurry after Hannah was born though!
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Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:56pm |
I see that Janine has told you all about my shopping hadits.
I cant handle not going, Janine did it a couple of months ago with out me and it was like she did it all wrong.
Ok now I can see why she has started calling me a women.
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floss
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Posted: 11 July 2007 at 9:57pm |
We spend way to much if hubby comes to and it takes 10x longer!
The only time I let him come is when we do our big xmas shop and spend out xmas club vouchers cos they are for all the little extras that he tends to put in the trolly.
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Leish
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Posted: 11 July 2007 at 11:00pm |
My hubby is a mess at groceries. We always spend more if he is there. When he goes on his own - even with a list - he spends waaaaaaaayyyyyy more that I ever would and when he takes Christopher OMG!! I can just picture them dancing and singing down the aisles putting everything in their trolley, overjoyed that stingy mum isn't there to keep them in check.
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 9:13am |
Me and Jesse normally do it together but on the odd occasion when I do it myself we end up with more stuff and it's cheaper although the last couple of weeks havn't actually been that bad.
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SMoody
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 9:19am |
Just to get milk and bread he is great. But get some biscuits ect as well usually.
For a big shop I will never ever sent him on his own. He will be there 10 minutes and come back and say it was overcrowded or he couldnt find the stuff on the list. He hates shopping.
But about once a month he will come with me and push the trolley and keep bubs busy for me. and yip I do stick to my list but at the same time he will usually get a treat as well like marsmallows or something like that and McKayla get something like a muffin. For being my two behaved kids.
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newmum
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 9:20am |
LOL @ Jennz
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Lisha
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 9:24am |
My DH only gets what is on the list.. and a few extra goodies, but when I go shopping I get the things he has missed or what I think we need!
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 11:25am |
DH is good when he goes shopping by himself. Too good. Not a single bag of chips or marshmellows or anything extra goes in the trolley when shopping solo. We normally grocery shop together and when I don't go it's because I'm sick - so no treats for the sick girl even if I add them to the list. So we try and double team.
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MummyFreckle
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 12:41pm |
I am really lucky - DH hates the supermarket, but he will go if I give him a list. In fact he volunteers as he knows how stressful I find it at the moment. He is fantastic....he will always get the brand I like, and if they dont have it he will call to check that another brand is okay. Very well trained I think! He doesnt buy extras either, but will sometimes buy me a 'treat'...very sweet.
He always helps me unload the shopping and put it away as well....
Gosh I am a lucky girl!!
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.Mel
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 1:09pm |
OH to go shopping on my own ... I pray every weekend that he'll suddenly decide that he doesn't want to go anymore... alas every weekend he wants to come. I have to admit he's pretty good, but can be quite pedantic about meat selection, drives me insane  At the moment it's good having him tag along because I need someone to push the trolley and unload the trolley as my tummy doesn't quite allow me easy access to get things out of it, especially the stuff at the bottom.
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 1:25pm |
If Daniel goes by himself I have to right a very very detailed list (brand, flavour, colour etc) and he just doesnt know how much to get, like meat, no way near enough. And he gets beer!
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 1:36pm |
DF is funny when it comes to shopping... he does try to stick to the budget and the list (which is good) but when it comes for one of those random nights you both go to the supermarket and say "what do you feel like, hun?" he gets all impatient and wants me to hurry up and get something and be done with it. Then you take whatever you picked home and then he doesnt feel like it anymore.
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 1:53pm |
DH hates grocery shopping with a pashion when he does have to come he winges and mones if i take too long looking for a cheeper alternative. we always spend heaps more because i am not aloud to look for the cheep stuff and get stuff on special we have to be in and out as fast as posiable. if i did send him by himself he would get every thing on the list and he would probally only add beer.
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busymum
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jack_&_charli
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Posted: 12 July 2007 at 3:34pm |
the one time DH went by himself he came home with barely anything! besides, grocery shopping is my 'time out' sad eh
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